I just wanted to say something.....

u kno, ive had this on my mind for a while now, and since i really cant say it to anyone else, why not say it here....

anyone that can go and break someones heart and go on living like nothing happen deserves to honestly die. i had a girlfriend for a year and a half, shes the prettiest thing ive ever seen, i loved her so much, she told me she loved me too, and then a few weeks ago she just dumped me out of nowhere, broke my damn heart. now she takes up drinking and flirts w/ lotsa guys, which isnt the girl i fell in love with, i feel like SHIT....

kk, thanks for listening!

 

Shit happens. Nah, to be fair, it's a real shitter when that happens, but would you really want her back in that state?

 

When she gets bored drinking and flirting and asks you back .... tell her to go F*** herself. with a smile on your face... don't listen to her reasoning or excuses...just say that you have moved on (even if you have not ). If she does not speak with you again then your gonna have to try and deal with it. don't go chasing her because another rejection or playing her game will break your heart even more..i promise (sorry).

 

The best one is a rare one, but when it comes along it's fucking sweet:

"Dumping you was the stupidest thing I ever did."

That's just one of those perfect moments in life where you can just nod and smile.

 

DBCF, I know percisely how you feel..I had a bf for a while, he cheated on me ad dumped me..for year afterwards i couldnt get past him..I KNEW we'd be together again cuz what hapennedwas just a mistake..sure enough..he came back...he told me he loved me and I was overjoyed..i went and visitted him for a week and things were great..then after I came home he slowely stopped calling me and soon, I discovered heh ad replaced me..but could he just be a man and tell me he didnt want me anymore? no..he left me hanging..and that hurt.,..a whole lot..but I made some changes in my attitude ad I am happy now..I still talk to him but never again will he hold the smae place he did. I hope you will be in a better place soon. As pretty as she was, if she did that to you in the end, she wasnt worth it. Just keep trudgin on. I myself found comfort in god cuz really, thats the only person who doesnt disapont. I hope you can find something to help you too.

 

Dude it's ok, you dont want her to stay with you if she doesnt mean to. She probably felt the way she described and then realized it wasnt so. She just wasnt the one, keep your options open, dont let your confidence drop down. It'll be alright and being single isnt all that bad sometimes. It may or may not be the first time somthing like that happened to you but it certainly isnt the last! It hurts like hell but at the same time... try to control your emotions do things you enjoy and keep it real. there will be tonne of others that will come along!
Greg

 

OH yeah and you dont have to hate her or anything, it's never going to hurt to keep the good memories but dont think about them too much while you are hurting otherwise you'll fall into a depression...
Greg

 

actually, she dumped me around april too, and then did the same thing, told me she loved me, lol. and now this, so obviously she never loved me



and to everyone, thanks for replying, makes me feel a bit better and trust me, there wont be a third time so i really really hope she comes back so i can throw it in her face, 'twould be a beautiful day, haha.

 

hey lets add to the problems, she got with some guy she didnt even know last night, which is a first for her. wow, this sucks......

 

"anyone that can go and break someones heart and go on living like nothing happen deserves to honestly die."

Hey dude, if you really are thinking that way, STOP, you're scaring folks.

In any case, could I suggest that you stop paying attention to what she is doing and who she is dating. At this point, being aware of her cannot be bringing you peace of mind.

 

Just hire a hooker who looks like her and smash her one.