going up to complete stranger, anyone done it here?

new mexico 4th of july bout hmm what year was that? 89?
well anyways, wandering around just havin a good time, a beautiful gypsy gives me a hug next thing i know got a nipple in my lips..she said something profoud that i cant really remember and danced away smilling
2 minutes ;later give another beautifu;l sweet girl a hug and she passed out in my arms
as im holding her limp body draped in my arms.a guy comes bouncin bye grinning a goffy grin touches our shoulders and says something like i now pronounce you lovers
she came to right about then, we talked a momment or 2 told her where i was camped and themn went our seperate ways, never thoughht id seee her again, but when i crawaled into my tent that night...there she was
spent the next few months togetjher havioin a totaly crazy time

 

That's amazing! I love it when the universe seems to say, "sit back and enjoy this ride!"

 

..............................................................................................................................uuumm............WOW......... Just WOW.

 

It's not that difficult to get up the courage. I'm not saying that the success rate is 100%. You do get shot down alot but then you never gonna see the chick again anyway.

Once at a friend's kid's birthday party he introduced me to another friend of his and his friend's wife. I was instantly attracted to the wife and as she walked into a bedroom alone I followed her in and propositioned her. She kinda accepted and we slid away to an isolated bathroom and she sucked and fucked me. I haven't hooked up with her again but I do have her number.

I have also hooked up with three teachers in one day. Two of them are regular fuck buddies. I was at a friend's parents meeting, the benefits of having friends with kids, and I sized up 3 of the teachers. Two were married but I moved in on them seperately and managed a small make out session and got their numbers. Both I regularly fuck. The third was unmarried and when we were alone in her classroom I received a bj from her. Haven't had anything more though.

These are few successes amongst a number of unsuccessfull atempts. The key is not to let the failures wiegh you down and discourage you in the future.

I think it's harder to proposition someone you already know though as you see these people more often and if you are turned down it can be uncomfortable when you do see them again. Haven't had to deal with that yet.

 

see the thing for me is, i have ALOT of chances to get girls, yet the prob is that in most of the situations I dont know them, and I just cant muster up the guts to ask them for their number or w/e, even though I am able to talk to them, I just cant seem to get to that final point =/

im trying to find someone on these boards that is able to get to that asking point, like, how do you go from having a casual conversation, to asking for their number. I think I just need to have more confidence and will be able to do it, how im gona get that confidence tho is my main wonder =/

 

The only real way to gain confidence is to do many things that you're proud of having accomplished.
If you're already very successful in all the areas that matter most to you, then maybe you're focusing too much on what's left to do. Maybe you should just take stock of what you've accomplished so far, and what it took to get to where you are now.

 

ya ya that doesnt help in reality tho it just sounds good

 

Well while I was clubbing on more than one occasion (this was when I lived in London) I'd be dancing with a complete stranger, get this mutual feeling of attraction, start making out, and then after it got like over board intense on the dance floor, we'd either head straight out back to my place or to her place to get it on. The first time I did it I was so nervous, we had only talked for maybe ten or fifteen minutes max between dances, and here we were agreeable to a one night hook up. On the way to her pad though I remember hardly even thinking about the sex, not believing that it was going to happen, and thinking mostly about where her place was and what it would be like inside. Haha, but when we finally got there we immediately quit the chat and went nuts on each other. When I had fully realized how casual it really was, I didn't think about anything else but getting my sex on. It was an awesome experience.
I had a few others after that, I felt the same kind of nervousness every time but not nearly as much as the first time, I think I started thinking more about the girls, what they were thinking and if they were as good to go as I was.

Then there were a few alcohol lubricated sex experiences, not proud of these ones, basically we would get so heated out on the dance floor we had to take it to the bathroom stalls. The first time the girl instigated it, I didn't know what we were doing until we were in the stall and she was pulling my dong out. I guess it was okay when I was living the moment, but reflecting back on bathroom stall experiences gives me a metallic taste in the back of my mouth. Looking back it just feels like it was bad form, kind of took the dignity out of the sex.

Yea so there's my experiences, or at least the ones that jump out when i think of "random sex".

 

One year I was backpacking around Europe with Euro Pass Rail. I was sitting in a compartment with three other passagers. There was this gorgeous blond blue-eyed Hungarian lady she couldn't take her eyes off me. I was 25, she told me she was 21. She showed me her passaport in an effort to prove it to me she had been to England TWICE! I believed her before she showed me her passaport because her English was fucking flawless. I told her I was from the US and we kept talking for no more than 30 minutes.It was about 10:30 P.M. We were both going to Switzerland. Nobody else spoke English or at least pretended they didn't understand it.It was fine for both of us. I don't know what was the deal but we were the only one talking.Suddenly,she stood up and asked me to follow her. I did. I followed her like a puppy to the end of the compartment. The train was half-empty. We realized it on our way back. We both went in the bathroom and had the wildest sex I could have imagined while the train was fllying through Austrian Alps at 60 miles per hour. We huged; we kissed; she sucked me; she fucked me and almost an hour later we returned to our compartment.We took our stuff and moved to another empty compartment and had even more sex. At around 4:30 A.M. the train reached the Swiss border and we made ourselves look decent. I never forget it. In Zurich we both parted company and I never saw her again. She was amazing fuck!

 

damn thats insane, pass the luck on man lol

 

2 nights ago I seen a really hot bored in a club so went up to her and asked her for her number and than i went off dancing with some my mates. She cam and found me 10 mins later and dragged me out the club and back to hers and we are now going out

 

so what did you two do at "hers" lol? no details 4 us?@!

 

And you never will. Those are the moments that make memory worthwhile.

Thanx for sharing, I could almost feel the excitement myself. I made love to at least one woman whose name I never knew. Men don't count - anonymous sex with them is the norm.

 

My absolute record from date to bed is 3 hours.
I was with a friend of mineat a drive thru McDonalds and the girl who popped out to collect my money had the most amazing eyes.Now i am not one to hold anything in so i told her so on the spot.She blushed and giggled,we paid and left.
My mates wife worked at the same McDonalds so i asked her who she was.she told me and arranged for all of us to go and have a drink 2 nights later.She came over and looked amazing.We left at 7 and by 7.30 i realised my wallet was still at home.Feeling uncomfortable with no money on me i decided to go get it and she came with me so we could speak alone and get to know each other a bit more.
I made a quick drink for us and we sat down and talked some more.........had a couple more drinks and one thing led to another as they say.By 9 she was in my bed riding me like a bull and it was good i can tell ya.Friends were left in the bar as we decided to carry on in bed...lol.

 

yea i did... my gf used to be a stranger to me till... well u know! but yea.. i've got this rule.. NEVER go out with chicks who u know or they know someone u know cuz u never know what may go wrong in ur relationship. i think it's better like that too. i can be wilder in bed.

 

dude.. start with a hello.. if she likes u... she'll play along.. "may i buy u a drink?".. stuff like that.. its not a trick or something. i've always believed that she's ther bcz she wants to have some guy ask her for her number. so believe it! if after a while she says no.. dont lose courage! keep talking to her.. dont ignore the fact that she just said no though.. keep talking to her asking her like "why not?"... or like i once said (dont try this tho, cuz it didnt work out for me) "who the fuck do u think u are?" cuz she didnt even look at me and she had this rude attitude... anyways, if u make her laugh she may like u.. they're HUMANS! not martians... NOW GO!!

 

This is the greatest thread ever!!! Talk about motivating!

It encouraged me so much that I tried at Walgreens and Subway at lunchtime today, hitting on 2 girls I didn't know. I was a bit nervous, didn't score, but am more motivated than ever!

In the past, the only time I've gotten lucky approaching a complete stranger was with a hotel maid. I've tried several times, and got lucky once at a hotel in Florida with a maid from Ecuador. Older lady of 45, kind of chunky but not bad looking. I just had boxer shorts on sitting at the desk when she came in to clean, and I talked to her briefly and she came and stood next to me. She couldn't speak much english, so I showed a $20 bill and gestured towards my cock. After acting confused for a bit, she basically attacked me. I had a condom on and was inside her within 5 minutes of her walking in the door. Funny thing is, she never took any money and we continued the affair for several years. Never at the hotel again; always at her place or in a car.

 

A guy once picked me up in a laundromat. I don't remember what he said that convinced me to go with him, but it was fairly late one night and we drove to a dark street and had sex in his car.

The sex wasn't really that great, but what I also remember about it was by the time we got back to the laundromat it was closed, and I had to come back the next morning to get my clothes.

 

Sure a few times. One girl I ended up dating for a few weeks but she turned out to have 3 kids and ex-husband issues, too bad, she was a lot of fun.

Another really liked me and was lonely but I must have beer goggles on when I asked her out, cause my buddy was laughing at me the next day. He said she was like twice my age. Personally that doesnt matter, but i was living with him at the time so I didn't pursue that one.

I dunno once in awhile i get the balls/feel lonely enough that i'll randomly ask a girl out. Nothing to lose really, worst she can say is no, I say go for it.

 

I cant believe more people have had success getting some from: bars, springbreak trips, etc, or dont those count??

its hard for me to try at the pharmacy or at the deli, but while drinking? no problem

of course got shot down plenty, but had luck also plenty times (when younger, of course)