How to tell you perents

Discussion in 'Cannabis and Marijuana' started by Zen_Master3568, Mar 15, 2008.

  1. Zen_Master3568

    Zen_Master3568 Member

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    I hear all these storys about how peoples perents are cool with thier kids being pot heads.... i thought i might tell mine so i dont need to wory about getting caught
    Any tips?
    thx,
    zen
     
  2. Gsmall

    Gsmall Member

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    well, most parets will never be cool with letting you smoke and still probally ground you for smoking so youll always have to worry about getting caught until your 18 some parents like mine will just yell at you let you keep your weed and let u finish smoking and them some parents will yell at you for not telling them about smoking now and smoke with you like my friends lol. but if your parents arent cool with it now they probally never will be.
     
  3. philywilly

    philywilly Member

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    I'm guessing you're not really 27 :p anyways.. my parents found out over time when the subject would somehow come up in conversations and such. If you let them know you're mature about it and you know what you're doing, there shouldn't too much conflict, but all parents are different.

    P.S. Being honest feels much better then lying.
     
  4. WolfinWolfsClothing

    WolfinWolfsClothing Member

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    I'm 29 and never actually told my parents. They figured it out in college when I tried to grow a plant one summer in their backyard. My mom was pissed but my dad just laughed. She was only pissed because she thought that she could get in trouble for having it there (which she could have). But my parents were in college in the 60's and sis plenty of drugs back then, so the fact that I smoke doesn't really matter to them. Yes, they would prefer that I don't, but I am an adult.
     
  5. Twizz

    Twizz Drug Conoisseur

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    I posted somewhere on Hipforums my "theory".

    My theory is that 99% of the "27 year olds" in here are actually 14-16 years old.

    it's been constantly tried and remains true
     
  6. Zen_Master3568

    Zen_Master3568 Member

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    lol, actually im 13.... i thought age mattered when i signed up
     
  7. Tommy1The1Cat

    Tommy1The1Cat Senior Member

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    Twizz, you have very good theory. Ive seen countless threads with 27 and they are all little tikes.
    Anyways my mom haaates pot which really sucks cuz i looooooooove it! Im 18 still live at home, gonna go to college soon but im gonna live at home while doing it. My parents are divorced. My dad tokes all the time and same with my grandpa they live in another state. I kinda like sneaking smoking, its really exciting but it would be sweet if she did not care that I smoked. My bro is really really anti-pot 2
     
  8. Haten_leet

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    ya i been smoking for about a 2 years(im 16) and my mom just found out and flipped out like started crying and shit. and lots of my relatives do it and my dad did it around her....and now i have to take a drug test every 20-30 days and it sucks so bad cuz i love this beautiful plant, and im thinking about trying to talk to her about letting me smoke...i mean the worst thing that could happen when i smoke is fall asleep or be funny. but she got this big bad DRUG thing stuck in her head and she dose not realize that not all people that smoke weed are bad/burn outs.. im mean i just dont know how to tell her that i love this plant and im mature enough to smoke it.
     
  9. Johnny_Tsunami

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    Tommy the Cat is a LIAR!! Hahaha, what's up man? Yeah Tommy's bro is really anti-substance, he was my roommate in college and always gave me shit whenever I drank, but the first time I smoked he just laughed at me cause I was acting really dumb!

    Anyways, I would reccomend NOT telling your parents unless you know they're cool with it. It would really suck if they turned out to be the type that flipped shit about smoking, bet you'd regret telling them. That being said, if the conversation ever comes up, and they ask if you smoke, tell them you have tried it before and see how they react. After talking about weed one night with my mom, I learned that she probably wouldn't get upset if I told her I tried it. I don't think I would ever admit to being like a regular 3-4 times a week stoner though.
     
  10. TangerineSoul

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    I'm in the same situation, 18 going to college and living at home. I thought my parents would be cool about it, so I told them. Big mistake! I had all my research and facts and things ready to show them, had all the info I thought I'd need, but they didn't want to hear it.

    My advice is - unless you know one of them smokes and is cool with it, it's probably best left unsaid. You never know how they will react otherwise, because my parents are chill about almost everything else. But now I have to be really careful about bringing it home.
     
  11. weedwhacker

    weedwhacker TFM Bro!

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    well last year (i was a sophmor) i was doing a research paper on industrial hemp, and talking to my parents about it, and we talked about cannabis for a long time. i found they weren't against it or anything, in fact they were both pro legalization. they asked me if i smoked and i said once or twice i had, and they were fine with that. now they suspect i smoke but i think they're just respecting my privacy because they haven't raided my room or anything.
     
  12. jimaug87

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    Good advice, that's what I was going to say. My mom was more uspet when she saw me with a cigarette than with my bong.
     
  13. Socratez

    Socratez Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    My parents are totally cool with it, and they were brought up in the days where people belived in "refer madness". It took many years (they hated it), but man, when you hit 18, move away for school... there really is not much they can say... and yea, it does feel better to be honest...

    I think that when I started teaching at the univeristy, my parents started to suspect that the whole refer madness thing was a myth... and acctaully enjoy hearing what the experience is like... if they were younger, I would blaze them up ;)
     
  14. <NUB> HpEoAtD

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    my parents found out last year that I smoked when they found my piece, I told them I was getting my bud from a hobo =). They cried like any other parents and made me feel like an asshole, then I started thinking about it and realized, IT'S A FUCKIN PLANT!!!!!!
     
  15. skamikaze

    skamikaze Coffee Addict

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    first, learn how to spell then they might think about it. Plus, tell them when your older. No parent is gunna let a 14-15 year old smoke more than likely. There are a few but not every parent will.
     

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