Sex with random people........do you do it?

I don't. No offense to anybody, but to me, sex is an act to be treasured....something two lovers share between one another to convey their emotions. I just couldn't bring myself to do somebody that I didn't love or that was charging me for a good time. That's my opinion on the matter, though. How do you feel about it?

 

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I've become very cynical with regards to love, broken heart and all those things just after school. I don't look for relationships and have a number of fuck buddies. It works for me and them to be honest, but I am prone to sometimes having sex with random people if I find myself attracted to them.

 

I'm not into random sex with anyone and everyone, only because I have a friend who did the random thing with many men and as a result of this, she now has HIV. She didn't believe in Safe-Sex/ Condoms, she just wanted to have fun.

We visit with her every week and each visit reminds me, why I abstain, when I'm between relationships. Its a small price to pay for my life

 

I agree with the above poster. I had 2 friends die of AIDS I really don't want it myself.

 

i hafta agree with both jordon20 and mysty

im not sayin i never did the random thing, but when i did wasnt at all as satisfying
nd the more meanningfull it was the better

when ya sleep with random ppl ya never know who ya might wake up next to...or what might make ya regret it

 

Agreed Soaringeagle.

 

He's got the right idea. I just don't want to do it with somebody I feel no connection to. What's the point in fucking if your "partner" isn't gonna be with you the next morning. I love sex as much as the next person, but only with a significant other.

 

Agreed Jordan

 

Agreed, Sarah




Okay, I'll stop .

 

Why? Agreeing is nice ^.^

 

sometimes that can be what turns me on the most, the fact that you dont know each
other...brand new key baby no baggage no attatchments. to me it couldnt be sweeter. its like a sexual mystery that you instantly get to solve. my own secret touch and special moves are new again. my one liners regain that crisp melody to fresh ears. nowadays its hard for me to get turned on/have a girlfriend if i am always doing the same chick...idk man. its like 'ok..uh here we go again' :wank: sometimes people can just use each other up. its like theres nothing left. strangers are cool. you dont know each other or any of your friends and you prob. wont see them again. its just like that one special crazy time in each of your minds that you will always remember...granted you werent 2 :rolleyes5


..::~peace~::.. donny

 

No I don't.. I wont say sex should only be for people who love eachother but I don't just jump in bed with people either.. I have way more fun and am more myself sexually when I'm with someone I love or atleast have dated a while.. I'm pretty damn kinky but for some reason when I sleep with someone that I don't love or hardly have known that long I can't bring myself to be truely how I am in bed.. the more comfortable I am the better sex I have..

 

I used to have random casual sex a lot. Not so much any more though. I think it's more fun to have a friend with benefits.


I never saw anything wrong with casual sex. Just so long as you are safe, I thinki t's fine. I could always tell the difference between sex that was for fun, and sex that was for love, so I never really had a problem ( and still don't)seperating casual and romantic sex.

 

I'm guilty of it but in my opinion sex is way better when it's with someone that you give a damn about.

Sometimes you just have that mutual sexual attraction between two people that occurs, and you both manage to forget about everything else and just act on the urge. It's an awesome release of sexual energy when it does happen, it just can't ever compare to sex with a regular partner/lover. (I've never been in love... so I might be stretching the term)

 

I dunno if I've ever "been in love" either, but I thought I was...before things soured and me and my then gf broke up (which was very painful). I'd like to think I was for a while. At the very least, I wanted what I felt with that person to be love and at the point where we were having sex with one another, I really did feel some kinda connection.

Anyways, I'm not gonna condemn people to hell, judge them or drop them as a friend if they have a bang buddy and screw around casually. I just don't think it's for me, because like you said, sex is especially great when it's with somebody you care about. I've never fucked a random person, or somebody I've known for a week or so, nor do I plan to. I need to feel connected with somebody before I do it. For me, sex is special and I want to do it with somebody I'll be able to talk to, hold, love etc, for a long, long time.