I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I love him to death and we get along very well. But theres been silly drama with his brother and his brothers girlfriend, that has made his brother hate me. (my boyfriends brother) Because of this, their relationship has suffered. I feel as if Im tearing the family apart. It hurts me to see it happen, and I think that the relationship between Lance and his brother is very important. I sorta feel like its not meant to be if me being there will mess somethign up with his family. But none of it is my fault. I did nothing wrong to him, or his girlfriend. Theyre choosing to do wrong to me. Its a really crazy situation. Do you think it would be better for me to leave so that he could mend their relationship? Or do you think it has nothing to do with me...? I dont think I should have to leave for his brothers selfish wishes. But I also think its unfair that they dont get along because of me being there. Idk. its weird.
How do you feel about your boyfriend? If you love him than no way. If you are just dating, than I wouldnt want to get involved in that kind of bullshit.
what happened? is there a way you can reconcile with teh brother, at least ot the point of being civil to one another (not friendly, just not creating drama and stress)
1. Yes i do love my boyfriend very much, and i dont want to leave him at all. and 2. I tried making peace with his brother. I apologized for anything I did wrong even though nobody thinks ive done anything wrong. hes so stubborn he wont have any of it.
Best thing to do is tell your boyfriend that you fucked another man. His brother will feel vindicated. He will forgive his brother for making trouble with you. They'll be brothers again. If you don't want to do that, just hang in. The worst thing you could do would be to break up with your boyfriend and tell him it's because of his brother.
It would end your relationship, but it would get the brothers back together again. It would be the loving thing to do. Women come and go, but brothers are brothers for life.
Bull-shit ^^ i'm sorry i am only 17 years old BUT, ahh take a look at this it explains my thought very well. http://www.metacafe.com/watch/1091345/video/R/CFD_1002/
It sounds very messy, what does your b/f think about it all ? what is his brothers g/f`s stance in all of this ? if you make it clear to your b/f, just how shitty all this is making you feel, he should talk to his brother and try and make some kind of peace. it`s difficult to advise properly without knowing the scale of the problem.
