More votes would be nice. 7 for no limit? Really? Many pornstars don't have sex with more than 50 partners. I mean hasn't Briana Banks done 200 scenes with her long time boyfriend?? Common, 50+ partners has got to equal at least some minor STDs.
Well, they'd have to get themselves tested - but as long as they're disease-free, I don't care what they fucked before me.
Doesn't matter. If they don't care about everyone I have been with I give them the same respect. I try not to ever ask.
I don't have a limit. I asked an ex how many guys she had before me and she said "Why should it matter?" It didn't but I was just curious. I knew she'd been around the block a few times. I found out later that it was more than a few times. She and a friend were on spring break once and there was a huge party. They got naked and got on their hands and knees in front of all those guys. They both got fucked from behind and sucked off who knows how many guys. A friend who was there said there were lines in front of and behind both of them. So that's why she didn't want to say....she probably has no idea! If I would have known that...I still would have dated her but I bet A LOT more freaky shit would have happened!
I am not at all sure how many there have been. I could probably figure it out, but I get bored trying.pretty big number though, and nearly all of them really nice guys. It is probably more than 50, but I've certainly never caught anything! When I was young and invincible, that was largely luck, but now it's just common sense and being prepared. Honestly, anyone who absolutely needs to know has priorities that are too far out of alignment with mine.
It should really matter how many the person had before you as long as you know they are with you and only you when. You get together.
I'd like to think my man didnt do it with just anything and didnt produce lots of kids he dont even know about but who or how many doesnt really matter as long as he is a one woman man kinda guy. My guy now is all about honesty and telling the other of a need to wonder before it happens. He gets wild about others who'd do such a thing while in a relationship. He has had a few in his life time and thats normal in my mind. So have I and we are open enough that we can tell each other about our past partners, little stories and such that come up about them. He doesnt seem to show any jealousy type actions if I say something about a past partner and neither do I. Infact we seem to learn lots about each other with our open minded talks. I have been lucky, never been with a jealous type guy or an abusive one.
Lol.... who are these people who clicked "5"? Anyways, I could care less. As long as he's with me when we're together then why would I care about the past... also for who ever said 50+ has to equal @ least some minor std's... not true. Plus minor can be treated anyways. But I don't know why I'm bothering to reply to what someone posted in 2008. Yawn. (really..can't stop yawning.)
I think age is the real factor here. If she's 22 and has had 100 guys, "she might be a slut." If she's 35 and has had 100, she's might be less of a slut.
I met my wife when we were both 22. For the first year of dating we never had the how many talk. Then we were both out drunk at a bar and she saw a guy she knew from college. She was really beaming and flirting with him, and his friend. No big deal as she has always been a flirt. As we are leaving the bar I asked how she knew him. She was pretty drunk and told me she used to fuck him in college and he has the biggest dick she has ever seen. I then asked if she knew the friend and she stated she gave him a blow job a few times. I then asked if she fucked anyone else in the bar. She said she doesn't know. My follow up was just how many guys have you been with. She told me she probably has fucked about 60 guys and has given blow jobs to around 80. All of that was before the age of 22. I thought it was around 8. But what the hell, I still married her. The woman loves sex.....