Heeya guys, I need some advice(s) and opinion(s) for my problem. I love my girlfriend so much and wanted she to be my wife in future but in these past few months, she started to change and always looking for fight with me. Sometime we even didn't talk or meet for a weeks. But still I love her so much and try to endure with her atittude. 3 weeks ago, I met with a new girl from online game. We did hang out and I feel happy and enjoy that time, she is nice and quite hot. But then I got a feeling that she has crush on me. So I told her that I already have a girlfriend and hoping she won't have any feel more that just a good friend on me but that didn't work. Last weekend, she told me that she love me and don't care about my girlfriend. She wanted to be with me and make me happy. So now I can't decide which one I should choose, Should I stay with my girlfriend and try to fix our relationship Or Should I pick the new girl who so love me and wanted to be with me.
go with the hot gaming girl is what id do, and try to shore up ur relation with ur gf at the same time, then if ur gf doesnt lighten up, tell her ur threw with her err i mean, have "fun" with the gaming girl, but w/o ur gf knowing it, then if things go south with ur gf u can have ur bases covered, i mean ur only 22, i dont think u need to consider urself pinned down at that age I mean a hot gaming girl isnt something that comes around every day, I would take that if I were you, thats whats great about a "gf" "bf" relationship, it doesnt have that official stamp so you can cheat on it and still be okay. Others would say dont cheat but man ur only 22!!! and its a HOT gaming chick, u cant be sane and pass that up!!, especially when ur gf is being a bitch 2 u
Don't cheat. She will find out about it. Trust me i know. All you guys start to act different when you have another girl on the side. Pick just one. The one you like to be around all the time. You need to talk to your girlfriend and tell her about how you feel? How long have you been going out? I can tell you from experience that if you have been togather for awhile, then it is not new, you know each other. So what you are feeling for the other girl is the new ness. Everything is great, she don't know your ups and downs. She only knows the good things. Just do the right thing.
Yeah I have to agree guys acted different when they are cheating. I ahve never been cheated on but have been the other girl. Either way its hard to hide
You have more time invested in your girlfriend, so you need to address that relationship first. You can set a time limit if you want, something like "if it isn't worked out in a month I am going to end it." If the gaming girl really likes you chances are she will still be around in a month. So what do you have to lose? Life lesson: Walk away from a relationship KNOWING that you tried and did all that you could to make it work. It makes for less baggage in the future.
Never cheat. It comes back on you and then makes it where girls will not want you. The REAL great thing about just dateing is your can break up and its no big deal. Once you get married and your break up you lose half of your stuff. Trust me I know.
