Prob. guy/girls help please

My boyfriend Matt and me, Angel have complications in bed. He can't go long enough for me to reach orgasim, but when he stops to give himself a 'rest' but still stimulate me. Problem is I need him for an orgasm...all of him (wink) but lately he doesn't go long enough for me to get any O's. I'd say for the past 8/9 times.

I really want to feel as close to him when he finishes, & I want to finish at the same time.

Position switching doesn't work either...tried mercilicly to no avail.

Any ideas/advice...anything would help.--Thanks

 

I heard that if he wacks off like 2-3 hours beforehand that he can go for much longer before finishing. Hope this helped!

 

can he not keep hard after he ejaculates and continues penetrating you till you climax. he may even ejaculate himself again increasing his own pleasure. there are ways to keep him hard inside you

 

I'm a huge fan of using a vibrator during sex. I use it on my clit while he's inside me. It makes me go a lot faster.

 

Well your guy is probably noticing it too. Is he out of shape? Are you getting it on while hes high? Is he really in the mood? Is he tired, exhausted from work, or hungry, or thirsty? Are you really into the sex or are you lettin him do all the work to gett you off?

Lots of stuff can add up.

I've only ever came "too soon" when I just wanted to get it over with and go to sleep.

 

He's a guy... guys are always in the mood. No...That's not the problem. :jester: :spam: :jester:

 

guys are not always in the mood. Try giving him a blow job 30 minutes before. Making him go the the gym could help to.

 

I had a boyfriend like that, and I found after 4 years of playing the only way for me to get off was to dump his ass and find a new beau.

 

I was joking.(hence all the smilies)

 

Angel86- check out my thread on Premature Ejaculation in the Sexual Health forum in Love and Sex for 10 techniques to stop premature ejaculation.

 

Too much emphasis on penetration, no enough on foreplay, not enough hand caressing and kissing.

You need to spend a lot more time on foreplay (caresssing, kissing, and teasing, licking, nibbling and nuzzling).

 

Just have him keep going once he's ejaculated once. It takes me another half hour at the very least right after the first ejaculation.