can you love again?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by green-hair-blue-eyes, Feb 22, 2008.

  1. green-hair-blue-eyes

    green-hair-blue-eyes Member

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    i was lucky enough to find true love. but it has been brutally and prematurely taken from me.
    has anyone loved, then lost, then loved again?
    or will i always carry my greif
     
  2. Underoathxxx

    Underoathxxx Member

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    dont be down man, you will find someone new.

    i dated a girl for 2 years expecting to marry her, but she than left me for some guy she met on halo 3. it hurt for a month or so, but i found someone else. someone actually better. you just have to put yourself out there.

    good luck!
     
  3. pharmer420

    pharmer420 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Happens to the best of us. It sucks for a while but day by day it hurts less and less. And yes you will find love again....So hang in there you will be fine.....
     
  4. silverhippy

    silverhippy Comfortably Numb

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    You must try very hard to move on, you may very well always carry your greif at your lost love, but don't dwell on it, it will rip up your soul, I speak from experience, never compare a new woman to the love you once had or they may not stack up, each person is a new experience give them a chance. That was my mistake trying to find the one I lost in others. You can not. Fly on man.

    Peace
     
  5. StayLoose1011

    StayLoose1011 Senior Member

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    It's really hard man, I know, but just have faith that you can learn from the experience and one day perhaps feel an even greater love. Do you mind sharing how it was taken away? It can be really hard to put yourself out there again once your heart has been so violently ripped from your chest, but I can assure you that you can love and be loved again and that in the end it is worth it to let go and to be vulnerable, as tough as it is.
     
  6. laurenq

    laurenq Member

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    you will always feel it in your soul but you will learn to be okay with it
     
  7. Naoki_ninja

    Naoki_ninja Bruce Lee's hero

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    i've been in love then shot down from that feeling like a bird. you just have to keep your chin up. im with someone now that is way better than the other guy ever was.
     
  8. benkale

    benkale Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    When I was young in high school, I thought I was in love, but really I just had a small taste of human romantic love. I never even dated the girl, I just really liked her. She never liked me. Took me 3 years to get over her...

    But now I'm really dating someone, and we see each other daily and we are very much in love. We've been together officially for a year, although we've been romantically involved with each other to some extent for the last three years. Now we just know we need to be together. It's the first time I've really known I'm in love and I'm terrified of losing it because I don't know how I could ever possibly love another girl the way I do her. I don't think that's going to happen though, because she feels the same way.
     
  9. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    I fell in love when I was 18 and taken away when I was 19, Its been six years and I still cry for the motherfucker almost every single day. he is now married with two children, and we had a brief fling about 6 months ago and I let him go. All he wanted was to get laid, and I had had enough. I met a wonderful guy a few months ago, but because I'm not able to let someone into my space, I kept him at arms length and just kept a sexual relationship. I havent dated since i had my heart broken, and I feel like this guy deserved more, but I could't make myself. I literally get sick at the thought of having a relationship, and feel the need to run away. I wanna kick myself because this guy is so awesome, smart, kind, generous, funny, talented and settled, but I basically told him I had to stop seeing him because he wanted more, and I just cant. people say it goes away, but I have yet to experience it.
     
  10. dreamingofTheo

    dreamingofTheo Member

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    A broken heart,,,hurts,,,,alot,,,I long and yearn for James everyday,,,looking to see if he will one day show up somewhere,,,

    I have compared other men to him,,,and ,,,no, they do not compare,,,heading to Alabama with a new one,,,-----in my heart, I don`t think it will work out,,,he is kind,,,but,,,James will always be in my heart,,,in a corner,,,God gives us,,,these loves,,,My soul longs to be with a real man,,,motorcycle and a wild Spirit....my spirit can not be contained in a square box,,,but I am trying to not miss out on love,,,who the hell is to say what love is when your soul is in pain
     

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