how to brake the walls of a male tease.

A few months ago I dated this guy. He had this raw sexual power about him, and I know that was what attracted me to him. he was always talking about sex, but not like I would usually hear people talking about sex. Anyway, he always talked about when we were going to have sex,...and that's all he ever did, talked. there were many opportunities to, at the very lest, mess around. But we never did anything. it was very fustriating. we broke up, but remained good enough friends that I would still watch him practice his music.

To get to the point, he and I are starting to reconnect. I would love to actually "connect" but I don't know how to get it to that step. advice por favor!

 

Grab his hand and put it on your crotch.

 

sounds like a virgin or possibly in the closset gay, all the talk talk talk but no action shows hes really not confortable with his sexuality, he overcompensates by being so focused on what makes him most unconfortable
maybe you should just talk to him about it?

 

Shove him up against a wall, growl and proceed to rip his clothes off.. make him call you mistress.. LOL seriously.

 

sounds like you will have to take the upper hand with this guy, one day, when he is talking about what he would like to do to you, grab his hand & take him somewhere, tell him that all this talk of sex can lead to a girl getting frustrated, just start kissing him and let your hands wander, gently rub him through his trousers- if he responds, let him know that it`s ok for him to do the same, just guide his hand to wherever you want it.
he could be using all this sex-talk, hoping that you will latch onto something he says, maybe not wanting to seem that it`s all he is interested in you for, some people just need that little push.

a few (more than i care to remember) years ago, i was seeing a girl, she was gorgeous & very inexperienced, we got on great & there was always a sexual charge between us, but she was very shy, apart from a little breast play, nothing much happened between us for a while, it wasnt always easy getting time alone, but one day she was staying at her friends house, her friend got tired & went to bed. we went into the kitchen to make a coffee, we got kissing- things were getting a little heated and she just whispered in my ear that she wished we could get away together, she was getting frustrated... i took this as a signal and when she turned to pour the coffee, i asked her for her hand, but told her not to turn around, i let her feel how aroused i was, she responded and moved my hand from her waist up to her breast. after a couple of minutes she was really getting into it and had my cock out stroking it, suddenly she turned around, took a deep breath, reached down, removed her panties, hitched up her skirt and said in rather desperate tone `do you wanna fuck-me ?`i answered with actions rather than words, and she went from being an ultra-shy virgin to cock-hungry monster in one night- she just needed a little encouragement

 

call him up and tell him to come in to the house/apartment. Be alone, naked, and feigning sleep on the couch or bed. See what happens.

 

THIS. No-sell his mind games (no-sell is a term wrestling geeks like myself use alot. It means not to react to something), wait for him at your place nude. When he comes in, grab him, push him to the floor, kiss him and tell him you want it. Basically, be a sexual savage. Don't let up, tiger. NO straight man can turn down a woman who is looking them square in the eyes and demanding that they be fucked.

 

he's either messin' with you or he wants you to domme him.

 

The thing about me is, I could never tease my GF properly. I'd probably turn myself on teasing her and proceed to jump on her and screw. This guy sounds like he's relatively strong willed.....or very shy. If he wants to be dominated, can't blame him. I'm not a fan of being a "slave", but a woman in control (during sex or anything else), is sexy. Unless we are talking custody battles *rimshot*. I'll be here all week. Great, huh?!



















No? Oh well.

 

No one can stop something that's inevitable, and it's equally foolish to try to force it. The best that anyone can do when having to work with the wills and desires of other people is react to each situation naturally and honestly as it happens, with as little premeditation as possible. Until you have some reason to suspect otherwise, it seems safest to assume that this is what this guy has been doing. It would be wise of you to do the same, and learn all you can from the situation, and the wait.