I'm 20 and have slept with 5 people including my current partner. I lost my virginity when I was 16 and of those 5 2 were one night stands. One of those one night stands was a stranger. (person i met that night) I don't think there's a universal definition for the word Slut. it seems to come down to perception.
Good for you! That would be nice I think, to be someones first and them mine. It'd make that bond a bit more special
Just one for me, my husband. I don't like the word slut, though. As it's been stated many times throughout this thread, I think the only time I could use the word "slut" was if a woman was trying to, or succeeding in, sleeping with someone else's husband or partner or whatever. Or using sex manipulatively. Otherwise, it's her call, not anyone else's, and she should do what makes her happy. If sex makes you happy, I say hell yeah, go for it!
7. i wouldn't consider a girl a "slut" at all, but if i did i would have to say women who don't care about who they have sex with and don't take the proper precautions when they do have sex are "sluts"
I've slept with 3 guys. In my opinion, although I can't say I use or like the word, a slut would be someone who slept with someone just for the physical feeling, and not because they appreciate the beauty that comes with sharing that intimate part of yourself with someone else.
i became active at 14. i am now 22. i have slept with 21 or 23 people ( i dont want to count them, blech!) i think a slut is 100+ people. but some ppl consider me a slut. i really am not. ive never cheated. some partners were two or three at a time (hehe) so thats why it is so high. i went through an explorative phase. i wanted to know what an orgy was like. its fun. glad i got that over with LOL
ive slept with 2 people thats including my current boyfriend i first slept with my then current boyfriend when i was 14, i was the first out of my group of friends so i straight off got called a slut. Again i got called a slut a week or so back when they found out i have had sex with my now current boyfriend. Yes i may only be 15 but ive slept with 2 people and that makes me a slut? i do not think so. Its not like im sleeping around behind my boyfriends back either, and when i had sex with my now current boyfriend it was very special and brought us closer together. I personally dont think any of them understands how special it is and how close it brings you and your boyfriend together. But i think a slut is just someone who sleeps with loads of guys for the hell of it really. Love Hollie xx
I'v made love to one and definitly 'the' one. 5 years & still going strong*: ) I would consider anyone who doesn't have sex in love a person who deosn't hold high regard for themselves, but not a slut.
i was a total slut ... 40 guys by the time i was 22 (i used condoms and the pill) and that was being selective ... and then i met my 2nd husband. thank god those slut days are over. i thank god everyday for sex with one man for the last 18 years, whenever, whereever, however. if i'm not in the mood, i dig down deep and get in the mood. he's worth it. marriage is worth it. a husband is worth it.
15 men, 1 woman. I lost my virginity at 15 and was monogamous with my "first" until 17. Then in the year between 17 and 18, I slept with 13 different guys, one girl, and then I met my husband at age 18 and have been monogamous ever since. I regret a few of the people I slept with, but I wouldn't have considered myself a "slut." I was broken hearted after my first and I had low self esteem. I really like the attention... I only felt validated when someone wanted me.
The term slut is used by women who want to degrade another, and men who feel like belittling a woman because the more guys she's been with the less special that makes his hypothetical cock feel. I call most girls sluts as an expletive because it's funny, even if they're virgins or old people.
i have 16. and i would say that the term slut is a term that you determine. if you don't think you're a slut than you probably aren't. just my opinion
I could sleep with 100 men and 120 women and still NOT be a slut. I refuse the branding, the patriarchal shame.