Hi all, I joined this forum to ask a question that I'm having trouble with (and don't really know who to ask). My boyfriend of nearly two years and I have been trying to have sex for some time - more like, we try and we usually 'give up'. We're both virgins and have done other things. One of the biggest problems is that I'm really small (also, he doesn't really know what he's doing...) So when he tries to penetrate, it really hurts after a certain point. My muscles seem to contract and after a while, he gets considerably less excited, which doesn't help. I talked to my doctor and she said to obviously work on the foreplay and lubrication, but it still hurts a lot. Does anyone have any ideas? What's a good 'position' to start with? Thanks.
I would say with you on top, so that you can control the the way he enters. It might help alleviate some of the pain if you control it.
Plenty of masturbation with various, increasing sized dildoes, with, or without him present, in order to get you stretched.
