Want to be a naturist but can't break the taboo

I have always respected the true naturist, there is such an inocence in their nakedness that they can walk around without feeling embarased or adding any sexual conotations.

it always annoys me when you see a documentary or film of a tribe say from africa where they are naked and some one always goes "ooooo naughty they aren't wearing clothes" or "ooo i'd fuck her" depending on just how annoying the person is.

but i have to say that there is no way at the moment i could pull of being a naturist due to all the taboo. if i was at a naturist camp i would just get horny i would probly be going to the toilets as soon as my penis would let me just to have another masturbate, this is such a shame and i know if i work hard enough i will be able to get past it but has anyone been through this same situation i mean, i'm ashamed of my self enough that unless i'm trying really hard i can't even go to sleep without masturbating and although this is seen as an acceptable secret i feel such a slave to my body, and so have to beat it. again any help?

any of you think i'm a freak for letting out the personal information to a bunch of strangers, yeah i'm a freak and freaking proud too.

Peppy

 

you are not a freak. I think what you are open and honest. that is beautiful in a human being.

 

All I can suggest is that you just get out there and try it. I would be very willing to bet that, at least the first time or so, you'll be so nervous you won't have to worry about getting "excited". And if you do, well... if it bothers you, just lay down on your stomach and tan for a bit. If you're on sand, you'll have the perfect place for your beach umbrella afterwards, too

I've been to nude beaches many times, and I've seen guys in an apparent "state of arousal" only a very few times. It doesn't bother me at all. It's natural, it happens. And, if it feels good and harms no one else, DO IT!

The only thing I ever encountered (twice) on nude beaches is being hit on by some pervert... the first time was no big deal.. the second time, the guy comes up to where I was sitting, starts chatting with me, then starts stroking himself. I made my disapproval quite clear and he left. But.. I won't let people like that ruin it for me...

 

You'd be surprised. There're different types of nude beaches out there. Some are more "family oriented" than others, and on those you would probably want to follow the ladies' advice above. Bring a towel with you that you can hide your arousal behind.

But if you find a more adult oriented nude beach, just relax and let it grow. LOL Like they said, arousal is completely natural and human behavior. If you need to do something about it, try and find a quiet and private palce to take care of things, or get it out of your system before you go to the beach at all.

 

yes yes.. i couldnt have said it any better

 

Interesting that we have come so far from our true nature that we cannot "find" ourselves when we look.

Each of us has a need to see others in the raw. Clothing does more than hide, it inhibits.

It is a proven scientific fact that men need to see women unclothed in order to be healthy just as trees need to hear the birds sing in order to open their pores to the dew.

We cannot set aside our true needs in order to adopt some form of propriety. Our nature does not work that way.

We can betray ourselves and our needs but then we become disfunctional in the process and have difficulty relating to reality.