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If you had not posted that msg FIRST I don't think anyone would have read this. I will give your post MY endorsement. By making a reply.

 

Hi,Im Tawanyh,you can call me Taw if you want to,Im 15 and I live in Mexico City.I was first attracted to girls,that would be when I was 6.I was sure I liked girls until I turned 11,thats the first time I had a big hard crush on a guy.I was confused at that point pretty much,then I realized that Im bisexual.Today I dont consider myself straight,gay or bisexual,because my attraction towards people is much more complicated than that.If you would like to talk anytime,heres my email:tawanyhlgr@hotmail.com you can also contact me through this website.Anyway you want to! hope to hear from you soon

 

hey there. i am a little 19´s years old boy lokking for a great conversation! i am from a wonderful country at the west eurupe, Portugal, yah, that one wich Luis is figo is from...

 

It is great that you are Portuguese since Im half-brazilian

 

Hi, i'm Danni. Im 15(16 in 4 days though)-and i am an alchol...oh wait, wrong thread.

lol, just kidding. I'm bisexual as well, i started out liking girls when i was 11, but thought people would think i was weird, so i kept it hush hush. Then last year, i just said,"Screw it! i am who i am". so yeah, hello all!

 

hi!


I beat you on the liking girls department for about 5 years! lol joking.

 

Blessed Be.

Since I put that "bi"-label into my profile, and haven't
elaborated on that in my initial introduction to HipForums as yet,
(which you can read here, if you like:
http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showpost.php?p=3436138&postcount=1)
I thought it'd be OK to supplement my introduction with an add-on
on this board.

As far as I have read here, I share one trait with most of you:
a dislike of labels or drawers to be put into.
Sure, since we have language to share our thoughts with, we use
words that have become the markers of one's preference, character
or even soul and heart feelings. Therefore, I have used such labels
to describe myself in order to provide a general picture - even
though, these label words are sometimes constricting when it comes
to conveying a feeling beyond them.

So, I am a hippie type of person and I am bisexual. :rainbow:


Now, to elaborate on the second label word. The first one was
already described in the post mentioned above.

After being in a straight relationship with a woman, which broke
up, sadly, when I went away from the town we lived in for my military
duty (I suffered some damage to my personality there, which led to
building up some emotional callus, ultimately leading to a split-up
afterwards, when I returned to the region I lived with her), I began
my life as I planned - initially, that is - by starting my college
studies. I always was interested in alternate lifestyle issues, have
always stood out from the crowd (not only due to my big physique),
particularly when it came to personal lifestyle, belief, outfit, etc.,
I quickly came in contact with gay, lesbian and bi people at college
and felt very confortable with them. I already discovered in my teen
days, that I didn't have any feelings of dislike or disgust to the
idea of loving men as well as women, and I was backed up in my belief
that it wasn't just a feeling of youthful indecision or insecurity
by reading some good books written by sociologist and sexual scientist
Günter Amendt, who - like me - believes that bisexuality is not just
the state of the preference pendulum swinging between the gay and
straight side, always in motion and never finding the "true goal".

When living in an alternative environment after dropping out of
college, I found people not hiding their preference but taking
pride in it and being open about it, I felt very much at home.
Another catalyst was my Rainbow Gathering experience where I found
that love is about loving people, rather than their gender.

In the alternative commune I lived in, I met a vagrant punk couple
who came to visit, then to stay for a while, who are both openly
bi and polyamorous. I had a wonderful and fun time being with them.
That doesn't refer to sex alone - that was part of it, as well, as
I enjoyed very tender and lustful moments when having sex with
them (sometimes the three of us, sometimes with him or her alone).
One thing which always brings a grin to my face was both of them
calling me "Papa". They were around 20, I was in my late 30s.
After a while, they travelled on, and I have a great cache of lovely
and loving memories (sadly, I've lost contact - even though we
exchanged cell phone numbers). Perhaps they're reading here...? One
never knows.

Later on, I also met couples for casual (safe) sex, among them one
couple, where a straight woman likes to have threesomes with two men,
and her SO is a bi man. From there, I also have very fond memories.


As for my thoughts and beliefs on love, I found that it is possible
to truly love more than one person, not restricted by their gender
but to hold them dearly in my heart and including them in my best
wishes. That concept of love I have is independent of sex. If the
heart and soul part of it and the sexual part are going hand-in-hand,
well, then it is a great thing happening, for sure. But, having sex with
him or her is not a necessity for me to feel love for a person.
About the other way around (as I wrote about the casual sex thing):
Well, if there is a mutual liking and a shared preference, why not.
Ships meeting and parting at night... If it happens, and the mood
is right, I carpe the diem, for sure.



Hoping I didn't throw too many words at you, and wishing you lots
of love and peace,

~*Ganesha*~

 

My name is Rich

Im medium height, kinda chubby. I am bisexual; I love women but sometimes I want some cock. I love women so much sometime I fantasize about being one (where my gay tendencies began i think). I never took that to the next level dressing or anything though (except that one Halloween ). Anyhow I have had a longterm serious girlfriend and a short term serious boyfriend (discreet, in the closet relationship though). But now I have the best goddamn girlfriend in the world. Shes intelligent,creative, funny, and super-kinky (she meets both my straight and gay needs)

I am also a huge film fan. Love all genres.

 

hi,my names harry(dont ask about the screen name,long story). currently live in the northwest of the uk, but originally come from the rural southwest.realised i was bi before I ever had an other half-yes,I was a bit of a late developer,but then had a few years to realise that i really wasnt comfortable in the "gay scene" where I live, but straight wasnt me either. now married to a wonderful and equally bi american girl after navigating the hell that is immigration regs,and very lucky to have kinks that match. we're currently monogamous, but with the understanding that that may need to change in the future.

 

Hi every one ! my name is rich, bi here from the chicago area, new to this

 

hi, my name is Rachel and i have no idea what i am. i think that everyone has some attraction to the same sex, some just more than others. thats why i feel that labels should not apply and the only reason they should be used is in a gay/bi relationship, because in any other case, if a label affects how a person feels about you, then you shouldn't be associated with that person at all. let everyone love you for who you are, and love everyone right back!

 

Hi All!

Wonderful forum!
I'm Dan, 45, living in Arizona.
I, deep down in my heart, consider myself bi!
I have never had a male experience but ache to explore that side of me.
What a terrific forum for us all to express our thoughts.
Love to all!

 

I really don't know I could most likely be bi-courious. I like boys but I would not mind being with a girl.

 

Mikey - 16 - Bicurious (i think) From the UK!

 

Well, Shale just checking in on this very long thread. Couldn't read all the responses yet, maybe later.


Identified as Bi for about 4 decades. Had a long term relationship with a man (5 yrs) and a woman (18 yrs). And have had sex with lots of men and women in between.

I have slowed down a lot, don't go out looking for sex as fervently, so I have become gay by default. It has been a while since I have been with a woman - not so long since my last man. (Women require effort, like knowing their name or something, whereas you sometimes can't keep a guy outta your bed).

To all you young peeps exploring - go for it and do it without guilt. Sexuality is natural and whether it is with a guy or girl much the same. It is the feeling that counts. My theory (and the bell curve bears this out somewhat) most people are bi with just a few entrenched as homosexuals and heterosexuals.

 

hi im trav im bi but i like to be dressed in slutty girls clothes dnt no why it just turns me on sumthing rotern im up 4 anything im 24/7 horny n very submisive xxxx

 

Hi, SteelyPhil here! I've battled with sexuality issues for a while but I've finally come to the fact that I am bi and probably swing more towards guys than gals. However, the only experience I have really is cybersex, so I'm still not POSITIVE on where I stand...but I have had crushes on both males and females, and that seems pretty convincing evidence to me . I am also into some weird fetishes and paraphilias...some of which can only be done in fantasy role-playing.

Due to how new it all is for me, I haven't had much time even to come out about it, but now that I'm thinking about it, it seems so hard for me to do so. I've only told my Mom, and I'm pretty scared about coming out to my friends and family, especially since I know that some of them are homophobic. It's a big step for me to even come out online, despite the anonymity, just because it's OUT THERE now. I mean, I know that I can't help what I like, but I was just brought up in a way that you were just expected to be straight...though internally I feel more at peace with myself, I feel more uncomfortable around my friends and family, knowing that there is something about me that they don't know and probably wouldn't like.

Anyway, just wanted to introduce myself as I officially join the community here and feel free to drop me a line with some advice. I think that most of this just takes time, but it doesn't really make the present any easier...

Oh yeah, I like submissive males lots XD

 

Hey everybody!

 

Mike - 16 - from the US... bi curious I think...

my name is actually mike, I just took the format from mikeylovesgiraffes because it seemed like a good one.

 

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