im 15 i've skip 2 1\2 grades and am now attending a college. the girl i like is in high school. shes 16. i dont know how to tell her i like her. any advice is good thanks
sometimes you dont need to tell her anything. rather show her that you care. i dont know your position so you will have to make that choice but... do something for her that is special to her. i know that can be hard. be open and just friendly towards her and something may spark you never thought would happen. hope that helps.
Look at you guy, congrats on skipping grades Lil'Doogie Howser... You should just probably hang out as friends and then I think it will come naturally for you... Just read where you said you were best friends... Well, then I will have to change my previous statement, if you feel it won't affect your friendship, you could just flat out be honest and tell her that you have feelings for her that's more than a friendship... Good luck...
she's ur best friend so just start talking to her like you usually would on a normal comfort level, then go right into how you really feel about her, really man if she's ur best friend then you should ardy be confident in talking to her, so all u gotta do is say what u wana say
once i was in a similar situation well i didnt skip any grades but i fell in love with my best friend and although we decided that the feelings were mutual and he loved me too we didnt want to ruin our friendship so we never officially dated or anything like that but then one day we decided to go for it but we were kinda on our out and it was too late so i recommend acting because if you dont tell her how you feel youll spend the rest of your life thinking what could have happened (sorry i guess you could say im cliche)
I've been in somewhat similar situations. I felt the thing to do would be to emotionally seduce my friend, and then have sex with her and have a great relationship and get married and have kids and... It's too damn much pressure! One day, when you're alone, sitting around watching movies...not some manufactured moment where you've set everything up...but some time when you just happen to notice that you're both feeling close to each other, ask her, in these words exactly: Do you want to fuck? And smile when you ask that! SMILE! She'll probably laugh if she doesn't run screaming. Then, unless you win the lottery and she says, "Sure!" drop it. Don't let it be weird, either. You've got to have something that fits with how you two normally relate to each other to fall back on. If she sounds intrigued and wants to discuss it, don't. Just smooch her a good one. If she's happy to let the matter drop and falls right back to a normal feeling, take that as a very good sign. If she wants to explain how and why that is inappropriate, DON'T APOLOGIZE. Say you understand. But don't say it'll never happen again, and DON'T APOLOGIZE! Get off the subject asap. The idea will sit with her for a few days...maybe months. Who knows? But she knows already that you want her, and she'll respect you for making an honest gambit. More than likely, she'll either fuck you that day or soon after. It took me years to learn that women, generally, only fall in love after some pretty good sex. In fact, most of the time, it's the fact that the sex is good that convinces them that it must be love. Whatever you do, don't go turning into Romeo or Robert Herrick. Don't appeal to her heart or her mind. You're her friend. You've already got both of those. Now, it's time to go straight for the pussy. If you can't do that, wait till you grow up a little more. That's all I got.
Hahaha, wow, you cannot be serious... I'm am interested in why you think this? Please, lay it on me my friend..
Just my experience. The bond is very superficial up to that point. After a good orgasm or two, provided everything else is good, they start to let go of their reservations. Of course, this is only a generalization...but it seems pretty close to universal so far.
Your "theories" are quite entertaining...And it made me laugh, so thank you for that. I guess maybe for some people, I just never heard someone say this before, so this is one for the books...
I just hope the boy takes my advice! Jeez, I wish I'd had someone with my experience to tell me what to do at that age! But let me try to explain a bit. I'll quote myself: In fact, most of the time, it's the fact that the sex is good that convinces them that it must be love. Let's take prostitutes as an example. A prostitute can have sex with a man who really knows his business, physically. He can have the face, the body, the athleticism to really do a woman up proper. And, unless he's caught her on a good day, all she'll feel is impressed with his ability. Why? Because it's just a business for her. Cock in, money out. And this example doesn't differ from the typical girl you'd pick up in a club in any way except for the money. A girl can go to a club and pick up the perfect man and get the perfect lay and feel nothing. But what if she does feel something? What if the sex is really good, not just because the boy has the equipment and the know-how, but because there really is some sort of connection that develops in the process? How could that happen? Maybe because she has perceived that the man really feels something for her. Or, well, maybe not. But that's the usual train of thought. And all this is just a more developed way to re-state the cliche that a man gives love to get sex and a woman gives sex to get love. The cliche should add that most women don't give love until they feel they have received it. Flowers, a perfect evening...all that can be lies...but a woman knows exactly what she's got, when it's inside her.
This should be some sort of slogan.. Actually, I think this should be the Lifetime Network new slogan... Hmm, the poster is only 15 years old, I don't really think he's analyzing things to the extent that you do. But to each their own... Fascinating nonetheless...
