need help turning on gf

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by snipr, Feb 26, 2008.

  1. snipr

    snipr Member

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    i cant figure it out, i dont know where to start, or how to realy get her going, can anyone give me advice, especialy girls, on where to start and what would be the best way to do so?

    thanks
     
  2. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Step 1) Take a shave! (it matters) or grow a full beard but zero stubble.

    Step 2) Stop watching the game when she walks in the room. Talk to her instead.

    Step 3) The neck is an erogenous zone.
     
  3. snipr

    snipr Member

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    i dont watch the game... i shave daily just for her... and i kiss her neck but it doesnt seem to do shit... (which is how i turned girls on before... but it doesnt seem to do much for her)
     
  4. pharmer420

    pharmer420 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Dude there are many areas that are not in places you would think they are. Behind the ears, the crease on the back of the knee, the lower spine, under the bottom of the breast, as well as the feet. Start with a good foot message. Do Not go strait for the pink parts. Caress her very slowly and lightly with just one or two fingers and pay close attention to her reactions. Remenber thoes spots and then she is puddy in your hands.....Take your time and remember do not just go of the boobs and who-who....Take the time and explore the pay off will be well worth the time expendature..
    Good Luck
     
  5. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    ask her what turns her on

    with 1 girl might be a feather light touch and extreme tenderness while the next might only get turned on being tossed around roughly and slapped in the face..lol

    pay attention to herr resctions though and its fairly easy toget in touch with what she likes

    but ya know, could be more then just you cant turn her on, there could be many many reasons that she doesnt get turned on easily, medical emotional trust issues, u name it not to mention the fact the possibility shes a lesbian tryin to be straight
    but communicating will help u figure it out and help u turn her on...if thats possible
     
  6. snipr

    snipr Member

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    figured out the problem, see iv turned her on before, but im so confused cus i cant do it anymore... well today she opened up to me that for the last couple weeks (the ammount of time this has happened) that she feels she cant tell me anything without me getting upset... i dont realy understand why becuase of the fact that i rarely get upset with her, but i truely blame my phone, cus my mom always asks why im yelling when im not, she says im yelling when im not... so i guess just watch my voice on my phone... hopefuly next time will be better... wish me luck
     
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