I do mastubate but i've never put anything inside of me. i usually jst rub the outside but thats about it. i really wanna start masturbating inside but i dont know what to use and how to start. any one willing to help? suggestions?
And you know where they've been. I'm not sure why you feel a need to start working your insides. It's not a competition. You don't get more points for cumming vaginally than you do clitorally. But if you must, start off using your fingers. You can work your clit and your vajayjay at the same time that way. After that you can try whatever you have handy around the house, such as candles or maybe a cucumber (you might want to peel it make it thinner if you haven't been putting things inside you). As for how, make sure you are good and wet before you start sliding something up your pussy if you haven't been putting things in there. Start off stroking your clit first to start the juices flowing and also to start the <a href=http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology/ECE1/tenting_effect.html>"tenting effect"</a> of the vagina, which will help make inserting an object more comfortable and pleasurable. Then, just do what feels good. However fast or deep you feel comfortable or good with should be your guide. Good luck. Let us know how it goes.
i wanna start inside cause im getting bored with jsut the outside. i tried a bit earlier. i started just playing with myself like i usually do and then put my fingers in a little. the part i was worried about was popping my cherry cause i heard that it hurts. i got a cucumber like you said and peeled it down a bi so it was thinner but i couldnt go past my cherry cause i was scared. but the little it that i got it felt good so i wana go all the way. how can i physc myself up enough to do it?
Start with a finger - then 2, then 3. The start to move on to other suitably sized & shaped objects. Basically, the golden rule is that it should be pleasurable & not painful.
Start with a finger - then 2, then 3. The start to move on to other suitably sized & shaped objects. Basically, the golden rule is that it should be pleasurable & not painful.
You psych yourself up enough to do it by getting so horny that a little pain will be worth it. And start off small. If you're really 19, you might want to go to a sex shop and buy yourself a smaller vibrating dildo (one that's shaped like a long bullet, not one of the penis-shaped ones). That way the tapered end will start sliding into your hymen (if it's ring-shaped) and you can work it in gently and comfortably until your excited enough to push it in all the way. Also, try peeling or cutting the cucumber into a a more tapered shape so that it's much thinner on the end going inside you. Good luck.
YAY! I DID IT!!!!!! im so glad i did. i havent stopped masturbating since lol. i even called work to say i couldnt come in so i could stay home. lol.
