Heres what I hear you saying....right now, life is good. The people who need to know who you are do know you. They like you just fine, it seems like. You got a boy to love who wants to stay low key for his own comfort right now. You don't seem to be in a bad situation. So, what is it that you may gain by coming out now. How is coming out now going to enrich the quality of your life?
There you go... an international brain trust ( the 3 of us who posted) recommend: If it ain't broke., don't fix it. And then you live happily ever after.
Aww, thank you so much guys for those great responses! It isn't really that its a lot of pressure to ask him, like we talk about anything, but it's just that he will not want to come out and I don't really want to. Ok well, thanks very much for the answers guys
Ah the politics of comming out, what a nonsense. Put your head above that particular parapet and you may be shot down. Well they do not expect strait guys or girls to come out do they. Just enjoy yourself's and well who cares about what the rest of the bloody world thinks.
