First Encounter

My first Homo/Oral experience was age 14 or 15yrs old w/friend in Boy Scouts. He played the lame game of Truth, Dare, Double Dare, or Dirty Dare. We were the only two playing so him and me same age ended up having weekend sleep-overs till age 17-yrs age strictly oral.--Then I told him I thought I was gay the morning after at age 17 and he was like "you need to stay away from me, I never know you were gay, I always just thought you were horny!" Please, like almost three years and poof one word 'GAY' scared him away and our friendship lost. lol...I read in the city paper his wife had another baby.

First hetero was age 18 and I was drunk, she had 2 kids already....Same age 18 yo with first 'all the way with a guy'.

now, no libido, no desire, self loathing self. Only the memories. Oh, and the flashbacks, its been a trip and not in a good way.

 

I'm turning 21 in July and I've never even kissed a guy.

 

When I was younger, like 12 or something, a friend from my chorus and I watched porn together and stuff... but I don't really consider that my first encounter... Plus that kid turned out straight (or at least I think he did). But my first real encounter was with my friend who considers himself "pansexual." One day this summer we just decided to fool around.

 

My first time was with a woman... I was very focused on not having sex with someone (for the first time) that I was going to regret. My dated for awhile and things were getting intense fast. it was both our first time and was very safe, intimate and a great memory.

My first time with a guy was a bit different... "You know what would be hot?! if you two kissed." That's was a friend said during a drunken night to me and one of my residents (I was his RA the year before...not at the time). It just so happened that I had recently come home after more than a year in Africa and was going through some serious culture shock and had questioned my sexuality quite a bit during the spiritual awakening that an African Night Sky can bring. Needless to say, I woke up the morning after and kinda had to admit that I was at least bisexual.

 

My first time was when I was 16 with a guy of the same name. We had been friends for a little while, but then we decided to play around one night, and since my parents were out of the house for the night and next day, we ended up sleeping together the whole night, then did even more stuff when we woke up before we got dressed again. We're still pretty much best friends to this day.

 

When I was 12 a male cousin who was 16 at the time. He started by touching me and then sucking me. I was very much into it and suck my first cock that day. A few months of that lead to him asking me to fuck him. I did and we played on and off for several years.

 

Girl, I was 13. My best friend - who I was basically in love with and afraid to say anything to - and I were laying on my bed. I told her I loved her and she said it back. When she was about to leave, I kissed her. Two days later, we were at her house going crazy in a big leather chair. Two years later, we she left me for a guy.

Guy, it was like, a few weeks after my 16th birthday. I told my best friend at the time (who's bi and we had screwed around a bit) that I would like to fuck a guy some time. She found a guy for me. Had sex with him in the back of an RV in a friend's driveway. My friend jumped in and I lost my virginity in a threesome.

 

I think I was 12 during my first kiss with a chick...behind the curtains during play practice...we did it because it was wild and made some ppl uneasy yet curious...

Then 13 I was dared to kiss my best friend at a party and I knew we both really wanted it and it sprouted a relationship that lasted a few months until her mom found out and banned me from seeing her for a year...but now all is good

 

my 1st time was 2 weeks ago with a friend on the rugby team who is 16

 

hmm i was pretty young, i was in grade 3 or 4, my best friend megan and i were playing together in the woods, i have no clue how we came about this but the both pulled eachother's pants down and licked eachother, i remember smiling and telling her her tounge was really cold haha, that's the only encounter i've ever had, im bi-sexual and am lookin forward to the next encounter haha, but it's going to be with the right girl

 

My first time was when I was fourteen. It was just known that this guy was gay at school in general. I was a freshman and he was a senior in high school. He was eighteen years old. The first time we had sex was in his car, haha. He has the biggest penis I've seen to date, which was not the best thing for a first timer. I enjoyed in nonetheless though.

 

Today ! ... I'm 27 so it was about time, too ... I met him on the internet ... he was nice and down to earth ... and hung ... it didn't hurt at all ... a good experience.

 

Hm... with a boy, my first time was actually recently. Last... no, two months ago at an Anime Convention. It was pretty much wild and crazy the whole time; just a bunch of horny, costumed anime freaks in one room haha! Well I met this guy who was totally awesome, and bi-sexual, so he was totally cool with me and that was great. We went back to my hotel room, and started- but as my luck would have it my roommate/best friend knocked on the door XD!! But the next day me and him went at it, all the way. It hurt, yeah, but I don't regret a thing. He went back to Guam and I haven't heard from him since.

With a girl ... hm. I was 15 and she was 29. She was the student teacher in French class and I was top student.... and yeah. It was nice; an actual relationship as underwraps and such. She was really gentle and totally gorgeous. She went back to college the next year and I haven't talked to her since.

 

first time i had a dick in my mouth was 9 with a 8 year old friend the att 11 i thoought to have sex again but he moved then i tried sucking mine but it was hard now i join gay things and stuff to get gay friends

 

ok we never did blow jobs we joust had them in each others mouths

 

Wow hell of a thread here but here goes

My first time i think i was 13 , i cant really remember how it happend but god he was cute still is too ive never seen such a beautifull smile in my life we grew up together and became so close it just felt natural but god it hurt ,both of us to be honest he was 14 after that we stayed together untill recently we were together for 9 years 7 months and 23 days he left me yesterday for reasons unknown any way last bits a little much so there it is

 

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Hmmm,

Well, only a few months ago, and 24, just moved cities, jobs, so, alot easier to just find myself and figure shit out. Went to a gay club, found a boy and made out abit, exchanged numbers but never saw him again, he wanted to but yeah. :/

Oh, and going to have to break up with my bf, only 2 months now but still. Hes madly in love with me and , its not mutual, hes really great but yeah. This is really going to suck. :-(

 

hmm iv never been that intimate with a guy.
only started acting upon my sexuality when i moved to spain.
was walking back from a club one night really drunk and met this 24 year old guy (im 21) who was sleeping in his car that night cus he wasnt from the city- so i walked back with him, and we got in his car and he asked if he could kiss me-so i did- and he was the worst kisser ever- so sad- my first gay kiss and it was crap! he then wanted to go down on me, but i really didnt want to be labeled as 'one of those' who just meets a guy and...

i stayed the night in the car, then left in the morning- nothing happened, just really bad kissing.
the next day-met another guy just walking back form a club, and he called me over- and for some stupid reason i did, was talking to him- 33 years old, very spanish, and damn hot! he kissed me- literally the best kiss iv ever had in my life. he then asked me to go back to his- obviously i declined (thinking about it now, i have no idea why...) but we planned to meet the next night. we did, and we kissed alot, and i was very happy. next week we met again- more kissing, but i still wasnt ready to take it further. i spoke to him last week on AIM where he informed me hes moving away to get married. what a kick in the head..!! poor girl, thats all i can say! i think about him ALL THE TIME. but i deleted his number- so dont have any contact with him what so ever anymore.

 

When I was younger I let a guy basically fondle me, wasn't too comfortable about it actually. I came out of that encounter sure that I was in fact I wasn't gay. It was in my later teens.

I went back in the closet for about 10 days, then had a second encounter which solidified the deal. That one was much better. Kissed for a pretty long time at the back of a crap night spot, and fondled a little while at a party afterwards.

In fact, my life has been a string of one nighters. I am not a commitment-phobe, or unlucky with men, just unlucky in love I suppose.