i didn't know i had a boyfriend... and i have the hots for his roommate...

All right....we are all human and all have human desires true. But its the choices that we make that really define us. To me this sounds like an attention seeking thing. Do you really need us (random internet strangers) to fix all of your problems? You know what to do so just do it. I am curious is to why this kid thinks you are dating? Did you ever kiss him, fool around, or anything like that? If so then shame on you. Peoples emotions are not just some bell on a string you can swat at. I don't blame you for finding the other guy attractive but you should tell the other kid that you made a mistake by leading him on. It is your responsibility so own up to it. I mean your 18...life isn't that complicated... I know I am coming off as harsh but if you are beautiful then you have a great responsiblity...sorry it just comes with the job. I think you need to find whats really important in life than facebook status...That just makes me sick. This is just another part of media, hollywood, bullshit, etc. that really bothers me. Let me make it clear that I don't hate people who have a facebook, because I have one...but i hate a lot of the materialistic bullshit that comes with it.Sorry for the useless rant at the end.

 

Talk to the roomate. tell him about your problem with your friend.
This way you'll learn more about what your friend thinks about you.
Plus, you will come more close to the roomate, he will know that nothing happens between you and your friend and that you're available!

 

okay, so i did end up breaking up with him right, but then on valentines day, we got back together, cause he did a bunch of nice stuff for me, so i was like aww... i "think" i'm beginning to like him.... and i did.. for like.. a day or two..

so i told him that we could be in an open dating relationship... i wanted him to see other people, not just me, because i did tell him that i'm not a good person to go out with, and so while he's with me, he could go and find somebody else at the same time.. then i wouldn't feel so bad.

so we've been fooling around for quite a bit.. since last night... until i told him again, that i shouldn't be doing this stuff.. and that i feel really guilty doing the nasty with him...
i couldn't figure out why, i just had a strong feeling of guilt.

after a while, i realized why.. cause i'm still not over my ex boyfriend. whenever i'm with this guy, all i could think about is my ex... at the time, i thought that, maybe if i have sex with somebody else, i could forget about my ex. but that didn't happen. just made me think about him even more. and so i had to tell this guy, who really likes me, that i can't do shit with him anymore... i had to make shit up... cause i can't tell him..

ohh, i feel guilty cause, everytime i'm with you, the only person i'm thinking about is my ex.
and i think your room mate is hot... sometimes things are better off not said.

 

Maybe your feeling guilt because you shouldn't be doing it? I'm sorry to say this but you seem very selfish.

 

I have to confess that I agree with the above. If you ultimately aren't going to take things to another level with "apparently boyfriend" then you are leading him on and setting him up to get really hurt. Kind of a cruel game to be playing.