man i hate being ignored by someone that is your "best friend" all i wanted was a phone call, i send a msg, i see thet he is online. nothing no call no msg that hes busy, nothing fuck him, im out
yeah man i hate that shit. i call my best buddy tryin to ask him somethin or see how he's doin and he either says he'll call me back and he doesnt, or he just doesnt pick up at all. usually peiople have a good reason that they dont pick up when i call, but it still pisses me off when they dont. i also hate it when people make me repeat myself when im talkin to them... its just kind of a pet peeve of mine.
Ahhhh just ignore it my man. People get into moods that are hard to rationalize. If it really bothers you that much just ask him straight out.
You know what I hate Justin? When asshole ex boyfriends betray you and cheat on you and then ignore you and won't talk to you because you're hurting inside and only trying to get better. I want my fucking cat back that he has. Should I just go get him now?? We gave him to him cause he was mean to the other cats, but I don't want him to have him. And my still has a spare key to the apt. What should I do?
don't do anything that will get you arrested for breaking and entering, theft, or trespassing. its not worth it for a cat you don't even really want.
Been there done that... the only "useful" advice I can say is to move on. Easier said than done, I know, but chances are that you overestimated the value the friend placed in his friendship with you and should take the lesson not to expect too much from anyone. As I said, I've been down that road and have to stop myself from obsessing over another individual who simply has other interests and may otherwise just need to not talk with anyone. Gotta respect that even (especially?) if you think it's a good friend. I've fucked up some decent friendships after overreacting when I knew they were on and elected not to immediately carry on a line of communication with me. The basis of my own behavior was on the assumption that I was entitled to the person's attention which, with a cooler head, struck me as being rather selfish and a cue to myself that my attitude might be bordering on obsessive. The fact that someone might be making a point to establish a bit of distance COULD have been a hint that behavior may possibly have breached that as well. It's a facet of personal space that is difficult for some of us to keep in mind with RESPECT to individuals we seem to click with easily. It's tough to keep in mind that someone may well reach a point where they need a little less contact especially when they are thought of as a good friend. Change the locks. Cut communication and get another cat. Get tough with yourself because if you keep letting your emotional attachment with the ex get the better of you, you will go crazy- and he'll help that along.
man renee, i got nothin. i love cats but if hes pissed maybe its best he stayed with HIM. im sorry my vast wisdom came up short this time, but im sure you can think of somthing. although i dont think a B&E will solve anything
