Well here is the thing. this story is kinda stupid when i think about it but here goes. I had a friend who i went to school with and he was trying to get with this girl he knew. Well after they hooked up he introduced me and we became friends. After a while she left him and tryed to get with me. well i tried to put off giving her an answer for a while since she was 16 and i was 18. After striking a deal with her about her age (talk about that in a minute) I called her to tell her ok. When i did she had some guy answer and curse me out. when i got her I yelled at her about it. well she then blamed me for trying to get with her. After a month or so she calls and apologizes. Then a few days later for no reason one of her ex b/f who is my friend tells me she said i am stalking her and to leave her alone!!!! I am so pissed about this but i don't know if i should believe this or call her and get her reaction? A little help would be nice........
maybe i should explain that i am out of highschool and the deal was that she would wait until she was 18 till we go out.
She sounds like the type that enjoys mind games. If she cries rape/stalking/etc., you're screwed regardless of the circumstances. I say, ignore her. The next time she calls, tell her never call you again and hang up.
No matter what the intentions may have been at the start, I very much doubt she, or anyone, is worth this kind of hassle. Leave it, forget her, feel shitty for a while, then eventually find someone else and be much happier for it. There's always other girls.
She sounds like a fuckin' whacko. There are plenty of them out there, like land mines, and you, buddy, found one. Leave her the hell alone -- don't call her, don't take her calls... Just let it blow over. Don't associate with her friends, either. What the fuck did you want with a girl you were gonna have to wait two years for, anyway? What's up with that? Blue skies, -Jeffrey
i met a girl like that once...fucking phsyco...she went out iwht a buddy and he didnt want anything to do with her very shortly afterards...i figured it was cuz he was a sex addict and once he gotted some he wanted new differnt tail...i was only half right. we kissed but half an hour later she was ignoring me because i hadnt asked her out yet...long story short we decided to just stay friends and as the days went by her phycoticness became more and more apparent. thankfully she got pregnant at 16 and moved away. -edit oh yes and run for your life. she's not even close to worth the hassle.
Stay the fuck away from her man. Little drama queen, trust me she loves the attention. You don't need the hassle. She seems like the kind of girl who always has about three guys twisted round her little finger. Don't be her bitch! Find a nice girl, they're out there...
follow peacefuljeffrey's advice and don't take her calls or associate with her friends. that kind of stuff is in the DNA, it doesn't get better or go away without medication. You'll eventually meet a normal person you enjoy being with.
Thanks for all the advice everyone. I put it to good use and we aren't talking at all anymore. I erased all trace of her from my life and i hope she does too. I don't even talk to anyone who is friends with her. I am just going to focus on myself for now until i find a loving woman to be by my side.
forget about her man. she is nothing but jail bait and all that comes before and after is drama drama drama. so whenever she has someone come up to yo uand say some bullshit dont let it get to you just ignore it. ignore her. if she calls dont answer, if she stops by tell her your leaving for an important meeting, or date. if it get to the point where you feel that she cant stop calling , change your number. thats what i did when i was in a simular situation.
