Hi all. I need help! Please guide me I had sex with a virgin that I have been dating for some time now. The problem was when I put it inside, the girl complained that it hurt a lot and told me to take it out. And so I did. Then another ocassion we tried it again and yet the same problem. I had a look at her vagina. Her hymen was still intact and though she did do some internal masturbation but not that much. I have a fairly large penis (more than the average size), however I read that this was not a problem. She was properly lubricated (no external lube though) My question is how to break her hymen without causing her pain? Please reply!
http://www.clitical.com/sex-tutorials/first-time-sex.php has some very veyr very good information for first time fucking (even if its hers not necessarilyi yous) honestly? more foreplay, have her be more relaxed, finger her first, have some lube on hand just in case, more foreplay, more comfort/relaxation, and yet more foreplay. with her hymen it may hurt a little regardless, but it should be minimized the more turned on she gets
Thanks for your reply. Can you tell me what to do about the hymen? That is causing problems. Will using lubricants help? How to break her hymen is my main question. :drool:
when you finger her next go as deep as you can with still being comfortable. if you do break it there may be some blood so dont be worried if there is any.
Your compassion is overwhelming. To the OP, first time is gonna hurt, no matter what (unless you're one of those lucky people like I was that had little to no pain). She needs to either get used to the idea that it's going to hurt and trust you to be gentle, or be celibate. If it's seriously intense pain, there may be something structurally wrong and she should see a gyno pronto. On your end, you MUST be gentle. Take things slow and don't push her too hard.
yeah you're right but the thread starter sounds like he or she is baiting this thread to get someone to give their own details...all of us are of age to have sex,and I think we all have had sex more than once,so be careful what you say...my freind
Its an honest question. he seems concerned enough to ask and not cause his girl any unnecessary pain. Like someone else said, she is going to have to get used to the idea that it hurts for nearly every girl. you could break her hymen with your fingers, or if that isnt possible, lots of foreplay, lube and berhaps giving her an orgasm right before you try again at penetration would help alot. When a woman orgasms, the vaginal walls contract then directly after relax and gives you a little more room to work with. let her know, since she is a virgin, that a couple days of pain, is worth the years of pleasure.. if she's smart. Good luck!!
Corleone - Make sure you are using a lot of lubrication in her vagina (KY jelly or Silk, not vaseline), then use a lubricated condom, and have her help you guide your penis into her vagina. Insert it a little at a time, gently, then insert it a little deeper until you are all the way in, then stop for a few seconds, and slowly move it in and out. Ask her if it hurts. If she still has her hymen, there will be blood - can't avoid that. But assure her it gets better the more times you do it together. Don't force sex upon her after this until she is ready to try again. Having sex too soon after the hymen breaks can be painful.
