i didn't know i had a boyfriend... and i have the hots for his roommate...

i've been hanging with this guy for a couple weeks now... and i think he thinks that we're going out....

i didn't know this...

i only think that we're going out when the both of us make it 'official!!'

i, did not!!! i repeat, NOT!! make it official with him.... i even told him that i'm not a good person to date one day...

next thing i know, (on facebook) he puts his status as 'in a relationship' and i KNOW for a fact that he's refferring to me.. trust me, i know...

so anyway.. i thought of just pretending that i had no idea that we were in a relationship.... or.... break it off with him... i don't want to lead him on any more than i already have.. i just wouldn't know how to tell him that. i'd feel bad...

"oh sorry, i didn't know we were going out...."

like... wtf is that?? right/??

so then, today, i see his roommate, i was like.... dammmmmmmmmmnnnnnnnnnn.... fuck he's hot... (well, obviously i didn't say that out loud... i just thought it..)

but i played it cool... he was like.. hey, i was like.. hey.

then his room mate and his roommates friend left to some bar, so i was stuck with my apparently boyfriend...

and i was on their computer, and i saw pictures of his room mate,... like.. holyyyyyyyyy fuckkkkkkkk... hottness..... i know this is typical but.. picture this..

topless, firefighter hat, muscles!!......... need i say more?

anyway.. i think guys have this code where they can't go out with girls their friends have already gone out with... like girls do.. lol

so that SUCKSS!!!

 

so wtf do you want? relationship advice? theres a forum for that. if you want my oppinion tell the poor desperate fellow your not into him in a BF way, truth hurts but its better then misleading into different beliefs and then a broken heart.

topless muscley guy and facebook sound typical, i have an oppinion allready which i would rather not post since im allready known as a prick, but is muscles and hotness the only thing you look for in a guy??
i mean since your hanging out with this other guy, is it the fact that you see someone better than him or do you not like him in a BF way anyway?

 

You sound a little shallow.

Might wanna work on that... seems like the guy you're currently "dating" really likes ya.

 

Whatever you choose to do, be up front with this guy. Doesn't he deserve your honesty? Don't be a bitch.

Though I've been there with regards to the whole "relationship status on facebook" thing. It's annoying and needy.

 

i think everybodys shallow, you'd be lying if you say you aren't.
so you know what, looks do matter. yeah. i said it!!!

and it is both the fact that i see someone better than him, AND the fact that i do not like him as a BF.

fuck, i was just gonna give up going out with guys... now i'm just gonna give up dating, and going out all together...

see, this has happened to me before already......... ..

men these days, they don't know the difference between - dating, going out, and random fun... those are 3 separate things.

 

oh girl you are such a fool, women these days...

 

....and you haven't been sending signals to "apparently boyfriend"? This suddenly becomes an issue when you see the room mate -eh? Do them both a favor and become a nun.

 

Or you're the one who doesn't know how to give out the right signals.

Anyhow, yes... looks matter.

But... to what extent? Yet again, shallow.

 

ofcourse i'm sending all the right signals... sorta...
i DID tell him that i'm not a good person to date......

 

Yeah...... that's not enough.

Anyhow, you really should break up with him if you're not interested in a relationship.

 

I'm on the edge of my seat!

 

noob drama lol, suck his dick if you want a fuck buddy, hugg him and say you like hanging out with him if you wana be friends, put anal beads up his ass in his sleep if you never want to see him again.

 

that's genius

 

either you got good pussy or the dude hasn't gotten a taste of it yet.

or maybe he is just a nerd and doesn't have any game or never really had a gf and so he thinks that any girl that is cool and friendly with him is his gf if they been hanging out for a few weeks together. I knew someone like this and i told him that the girl wasn't his girlfriend...cus i guess he showed up at her house in her room with flowers waiting and all that like they were bf/gf. they never touched or even speak to eachother like they were, they weren't flirting or nothing. but it was his first girl he actually talk to on the phone and went out to kick it a few times. dated basically but it wasn't dating more like just friends. but anyways, bitch was leading him on come to find out she was using him cus he would take her out to eat and stuff like that ya know. fuck bitches. dude needs to step up his game and bang you already. or let his roommate do it cus we know you will enjoy it.

 

look if you just let him believe that you are going out...then you are. If you fuck his roomate behind his back, they both will think of you as a slut forever. You should already know all of this.

 

yeahh.. i know

why do things gota be so complicated...

why can't his roommate thing we're dating instead...

it would make life so much easier lol

 

I know...Im sorry.
I think some people have been incredibly harsh on you. But there is nothing you can do about who you are attracted to. You just are to some more than others, and thats how it is. Anyway, is this really still going on?? do you feel like you NEED a boyfriend or something? cause you don't. So, why don't you just break up with the dude? keep talking to his roomate as friends and somewhere down the line something could happen. More than likely you'll forget about both of them and find someone completely different.

 

This isn't complicated at all and spending any more thought on this is a waste of time - thread closed.

 

I think you should get his roommate drunk, fuck him, take lots of pictures and then post them on your own facebook page so that your non-boyfriend can see. Or better yet, try going on a talk show with the topic: 'I'm not interested, leave me alone!'-- that's always a good way to get the message across.

Seriously though, I don't know why this is complicated. Just tell him he's got the wrong idea and sincerely apologize because you are worried that maybe you were leading him on, and you don't want to wreck your friendship, which is, of course, more important to you than anything else. Why? Because relationships come and go, but friendships are forever and good friends stand by each other through thick and thin.

You say this because you have to give him something when you're crushing his ego, so try to make him feel like staying friends is the noble thing to do., but be very direct and very honest about it.

Chances are, he'll feel a little crushed but really it's just his ego and his nads making him feel the way he does, and when he finds someone else he'll forget all about you.

If you're honest with him, he might feel bad but at least you don't come off as a manipulative, self-centred bitch.