plzzzz!!!! can somone tell me what i should do about my Jealousy

ok so me and my g/f have been dating for almost 6 months i meet her tru one of my old friends that used to date her we talked for about a yr and i finally got the balls to ask her out i guess all my jealousy and trust issues started from when she told me that she cheated on her last b/f with her ex. . .so u kno it really got me thinkin will she cheat on me? about 5months went by and one day i got on her myspace and found out that she had been talkin to a guy from new york and he was sayin that he was gonna be comin up in the summer and he wanted to kno if she would mind hangin out. . . so i got pissed and emailed the guy back come to find out she told me he added her to his yahoo when the case was that she sent him a email sayin that she added him and kept flirting back to him. so i guess they kept talkin about hangin out and w.e and i read that he said u think ur b/f will get mad if we hangout and she said that who knos if were even gonna be together by then and he said why u say that and she said i love him to death but somtimes i wonder why im still with him if he make me so mad (we fight about 2-3 times a week over little shit but anit that in like every relationship?) anyways i find this out call her up and start flippin out i really wanted to break up with her but i just love her way to much but about a month has gone by that has happened but kno i keep gettin these werid thoughts that she is flirting with other guys and she gonna leave me but she tell me all the time that shes not gonna leave and shes never flirting with other guys i dont kno what to do or think anymore i wanna belive her but the jealousy is gettin the best of me and i need somone to tell me what i should do i mean i got a bunch of friends but none of them could like tell me what i should do so plz somone help me out thanks it will mean alot and will help peace


ej

 

you dont trust her
and you snooping through her myspace and emails and whatever means she probably has no reason to trust you
personally i give the relationships a thumbs down, but then again i value trust a lot more than some folks do

 

You sound insecure... as you get older it goes away, so does the jealousy (but it doesn't go for everyone).

Just think about the time she spends with you, how happy she seems and all that, it's hard to think of her cheating on you when you think of her like that

good luck

 

cheat on her, and if things end up going well with you two, then discontinue the cheating, if they dont, make her aware of the cheating and enjoy what ensues =)

 

lmao naw i dont think im gonna cheat on her it wouldnt be right of me to do that if i dont want her to ya kno? but anyways things are seeming to get better but i still get jealous sometimes

 

Ive been with my bf for about 10 months now and we went through the same problems your going through with your gf. Why dont you try talking to her without yelling and getting mad and tell her how you feel. Say everything thats on your mind, tell her how you get jelous when she talks to other guys, and tell her how much you love her. Maybe at the end of your talk ask her if she wants to be with you for real or just go seperate ways. No bf or gf should talk to other people online and flirt with them when there going out with someone. Atleast if your going to chat online break up with them first. Let her know that it hurts you and lots of people when bfs or gfs talk to other people behind there back. Its not right and you shouldnt have to always worry about who shes talking to online. And if she decides to go seperate ways then i think its best, otherwise she will probly just cheat and then you will get even more hurt.

 

I found myself in a similar situation as of 1 1/2 months agoe, even though I really like the girl and know I may be single for a while, I cant admit the flirting (which did not stop once I found out and told her so) I basically told her where to go, and this saturday I might have my first date after this episode with my ex girl friend. I hope this post helps you...
As I view it, if you see no improvement its better if you break up than live with the doubt and then maybe one day find she has been cheating.

 

Dude, you're insecure, you're snooping through her shit, and no, people in healthy relationships don't argue about petty shit 2-3 times a week. And marvellously, your girlfriend tells this guy she's thinking of cheating on you with that your anger makes her not want to be with you, and you react by calling her up and "start flippin out".

Clearly, this is not going to end well for you. And at 17, you don't need the trauma of having your girlfriend cheat on you. Better to get on with your life, deal with your obvious insecurity issues and give it a better shot next time around.

 

Ive been with my boyfriend almost 2 years now and i think its just a normal part of a relationship arguing and jealously. The honeymoon period doesnt last. Sounds like you just need to relax a bit, stop worring about what and who shes messaging on myspace. Even if she is messaging some guy its probably harmless just a bit of fun, its always nice to know other people are interested so thats probably whys shes been talking to this guy. I talk to guys on Facebook have a bit of a flirt but it doesnt mean id cheat on my boyfriend. Id never dream of it. And i have cheated on boyfriends in the past but when you find someone you love and someone your happy with you wont and i havent in the 2 years ive been with my bf. I think if she wasnt happy with you she wouldnt be with you so just give her some space, dont go through all her messages and obsessing about this because it will push her away. She sounds likes shes she loves you just a bit fed up so start treating her like a princess and stop acting all possesive and needy. Good luck!

 

Six months into the relationship and things are already gettng heavy. I have been there a few times and I left that relationship behind quick. If you can't get over you insecurities and she doesn't really seem to know with the relationship is heading if she is talkin to other guys and telling them that she doesn't know how long u will be together. I would end it and start lookin elsewhere cause in the end you both may end up hurt.