so my girlfriend and I have gotten intimate several times now. Its great for me, and I am able to pleasure her fairly well, the only thing is, I cannot get her to reach an orgasm. In fact....she has never experienced one.....not with me, or her past relationships that reached that level. We have tried many positions, several "feel really good" to her, but none can get her there. I have also tried pleasuring her with only my hand, having sex and rubbing her at the same time. So many things, with no clear route to an orgasm. She is frustrated, and so am I....and its not a size thing on my part, on account of im the biggest shes been with.... any help ???? it will be very much appreciated.
Try this one night by yourself. Caress your own body very gently and slowly, this is the only way you will have feed back on what it is like for her. If it feels good for you, its probably going to feel good for her. Prolonged affective stimulis, over time is what is needed. Do what you are doing to your partner to yourself and ask your self is that turning me on ?
Moleculo - females are able to have orgasms differently. Only about 25-30% can have orgasms from intercourse alone, and another 25% can have orgasms from intercourse, coupled with clitoral stimulation manually (by you or her). Another 25% or so can only have an orgasm through manual stimulation, and about 20% can never or seldom have orgasms. During foreplay, try G Spot stimulation of her vagina. If you don't know how to do this, PM me, the G Spot Master.
well i have the same problem. the thing that usually works eventually is going down on a woman and at the same time try the g-spot thing or "finger her" it works quite well. Also, try out new positions, different depth or angles may work out better.