Okay...question for you all...... I have a 5 year relationship with my guy. We talk about having group sex a lot and we've actually hooked up with some people to play with. It's my girlfirend and a female friend of hers. Problem: Our relationship is not out in the open (discretion issues). The girls think that he is just my boss and that we have nothing sexual/emotional going on. The jealousy issue in me comes out now. Since we can't yet tell them about "us" I get the feeling that one girlfriend might think he is a free agent. Meaning I think she would like something one on one with him at some point. He's told me that this is just for the fun of greae sex. I'm with him on that. But I still can't help feeling badly that I can't express myself the way I'd like to......as in.....I know him sexually VERY WELL and that we do have this strong connection and he's not just my "boss". He doesn't seem to see why this is important to me. Why does it matter if they think we've been together for so long? He feels that in time...she will know. He feels that this is just a fun thing for us to do sexually and to just go with it. Not think about it so much or analyze it. (and yes...the idea of it is a turn on for me) So what do I do to get okay with not giving a damn about them knowing that he and I are "together".
