Im in grade 10 and there's this girl in grade 12. she has liked me since the middle of my grade 9 year and i've liked her as well for about the same amount of time. just recently(near the end of the first semester) we have been making out(very intimately if you know what i mean) with each other frequently and holding hands while walking in the halls. she is not the type of person that "deals" with guys. we both know that we like each other allot and i really want to have sex with her but i don't know how to lead to that, as well as if she actually will want to because my school tends be repulsed by sex (at least in my grade). I'm not sure but i think she is a virgin as-well so that might also play a factor. I really like this girl and don't want to fuck up our relationship so can you please give me some advice on my situation.
^I like the way you think jake. Lol. Not sure why your asking this here though. Cant really say without knowing the person personally. Ask your friends what they think.
i disagree - if he is hesitating about asking, whats preventing HER from hesitating too? hes ready, and he hasnt said anything. so, i disagree. i think you should talk to her about it
ill describe her so you can get a bit more idea of where I'm at: -she's very smart (like 80 average) both with school and street smart -she is a dancer -she is into drama and science -her friends are either total nerds (nothing wrong with that just saying) or very outgoing loud dramatic people. -she has a very real personalty(she will only do things if she wants to not if someone else tells her she should) -she is not afraid to be her self -she is like half italian half british - she is fucking gorgeous hope that helps.
^ sounds like a girl i knew and addored in school too. spend more time with her - out of school i mean, sooner or later it will happen if she likes you enough.
My buddy was in the same predicament. Im not sure this will help you but it is sorta funny. Heres what happened in his case. He was sorta seeing a girl for about a week or two and they were starting to hit it off and get a little intimate with each other, but nothing sexual. Then one night she just flat out asked him "So why havent we had sex yet?" And his response was "Well because you havent put your hand down my pants yet." As a joke. Then before he could go into his real response she stuffed her hand down his pants and the rest is history.
that´s a story to remember, funny as hell. anyway, ain´t got no things to say that haven´t been said. just one thing, why is your grade repulsed by sex? that I get that right?
i go to a catholic school where every single kid in my grade is sheltered so practically all of my friends are in grade 12. thats how i met this girl.so any way the mindset of the kids in my grade is baisicly "drugs and sex is bad, sex is only for married couples" it fucking sucks aswell they are all fake. but yeah and thats why i am still a virgin.
your lucky man... its probably the location where i live everyone is practically bubble wrapt or sheltered
take her to a sappy movie, but don't hold your breath... Come out Virginia, don't let me wait You Catholic girls start much too late aw But sooner or later it comes down to fate I might as well be the one well, They showed you a statue, told you to pray They built you a temple and locked you away Aw, but they never told you the price that you pay For things that you might have done..... Only the good die young thats what i said only the good die young x2 You might have heard I run with a dangerous crowd We ain't too pretty we ain't too proud We might be laughing a bit too loud aw But that never hurt no one So come on Virginia show me a sign Send up a signal I'll throw you the line The stained-glass curtain you're hiding behind Never lets in the sun Darlin' only the good die young woah i tell ya only the good die young x2 You got a nice white dress and a party on your confirmation You got a brand new soul mmmm, And a cross of gold But Virginia they didn't give you quite enough information You didn't count on me When you were counting on your rosary (oh woah woah) They say there's a heaven for those who will wait Some say it's better but I say it ain't I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints the Sinners are much more fun... you know that only the good die young oh woah baby i tell ya only the good die young, X2 You say your mother told you all that I could give you was a reputation Aww She never cared for me But did she ever say a prayer for me? oh woah woah Come out come out come out virgina dont let me wait, You catholic girls start much too late Sooner or later it comes down to fate I might as well be the one, You know that only the good die young I'm telling you baby You know that only the good die young Only the good die young Only the gooooooooooooooood
I'd start with some of the more natural progression kind of stuff, skin on skin, down the pants kind of stuff if you haven't yet... in a gentlemanly way of course, but it sounds like you respect her since you're asking this question. Talking definitely never hurts. And boy are you in for it... an italian british catholic school girl?! You won't even know your name after she's done with you.
Lol, at my catholic school, kids come drunk at 7:30 in the morning. I can name at least 1 or 2 kids in every class I have that smokes weed, and my classes are all honors. I definitely don't like catholic school, but I like the underground scene.
Learn how to eat pussy. Absolutely leg melting, spine tingling, hot, hot breathing, "I'm going to passsss out, but don't stop!!!" pussying eating. Then you will not only have any girl you want, you will have all of her girlfriends wanting you too. IT'S THAT SIMPLE.
haha ud think but i live in dam arkansas. idk what it is but im glad its not like where u live im sure within a year or two the girls in your class will start changing.