Hello :] I am a libra who is majorly crushing on an aries girl, whom I have a lot in common with. We get along really well and are fantastic pals, we read each others minds all the time. Secretly though, I really like this girl, and I'm unsure if she feels the same way.. She has given me some subtle reasons to think she might, but she quickly changes direction as soon as she gives me a suspicion. Plus, she goes around claiming crushes on a bunch of guys, like, a new one every other day. I let her talk to me a lot about stuff going on with her because I really like to hear, and help, even if sometimes the stuff she says hurts a little. What's a little pain to be at the help of a friend? Anyway, she can be very confusing to me AND herself, but because of our "telepathic" bond, I can always pick up on things that she doesn't tell me. But its just very confusing. The point is, astrologically, is there any way to tell if she might secretly like me back, but might just be hiding those feelings like I am? Being an Aries, she's very energetic and outgoing, but she has certain Libran qualities on the inside and I have certain Aries qualities on the inside. You could say we sort of perfectly balance each other :] Which is one of the things I really like about the idea of us together. I would really appreciate any help on this matter. Like... if something in the planets could say something about her that could give me a better idea of how she thinks/feels.
Oh actually I think they sent me the email the other day cause I got a little desktop message but I never checked Thanks for reminding me I'm gonna go see ^-^
Thats odd :/ It was just a junk email. But I checked to see if my account was verified, in my account status, which it says it is, even though I never DID get a verification email..
Okay..just go to the top of this page.select user options.Click on that.Then on the left side of the next page,click on edit option.Scroll down,and check the box to receive and send PM's.That should work.
I'm an Aquarian and my bestfriend is an Aries girl. I love her more than I've ever loved anyone else, she truly is amazing. I feel a telepathic bond, well atleast I do anyways.
Getting back on subject; What exactly are the love traits of an aries? Or, is there anything anybody can tell me about what I can look for to find astrological indications of how one goes about love/relationships?
Hahahaah... I'm an aries. and i happen to think Libra's are the second bast choice for us. besides Virgo's of course. so... she might like you.and in my opinion. if you feel such a special bond with her. then you should tell her how you feel, and see how she reacts. of course she'll tell you how she feels right away cuz its not like an Aries to speechless. or atleast i never am. hahaha...so.. chea. jus tell her how you feel. =] oh and....... I dont think.... Guest cant send or recieve PM's. so... you might have to wait untill he has enuf post that qualify's him as a member. hahaha... sorry.
Personally, I find that an Aries and a Libra get along perfectly. The Aries is commanding, able to make snap decisions, whereas the Libran may be indecisive. The Arien may rely on intuition whereas the Libran may rely on logic. But the Libran can be sparkling, shiny and charming. His ace card is his devil may care attitude which can beguile the Aries. Aries like to be persued and they also like to lead the chase. The problem is that once the Aries has caught her prey she may grow tired of him quickly. The Aries like constant stimulation whereas the Libran will probably like it slow and steady, at a constant unchanging rate. As a Libran you will have to make yourself up so that you stand out from the rest and she can finally notice you. Play hard to get. It'll drive her nuts. And never fall into a rut, never go to the same restaurant or theatre twice. Always drive to out of the way places, where she can roam freely, but come back to the safety of her master.
Welllllll I WAS gonna tell her how I feel... but every time I think about it, I get discouraged, because of the fact that she likes so many people all at once. She changes crushes often, and always wants to pursue each one.. I fear I might just become another charm on her bracelet, and thats not really what I'm looking for. She confides everything in me which I both really love and really hate. It means a lot to me when people confide in me so that I can feel like I am helping them with any issues they may have, but, at the same time, in her case, I don't really like hearing about all of these other guys that she may or may not like (I can never really tell) when I would really like to hear her talk that way about me. I mean she obviously wouldn't just talk to me about how much she likes me.. but.. Or, do Aries people fess up to their feelings? In which case she WOULD talk to me about me, and the fact that she doesn't could signify that she really doesn't like me? White Feather, you point out a lot of really interesting things, mostly because they are so accurate about the way her and I act. The flaw that I see in my actions with what you're saying is that I'm caring too much. I do find myself always thinking about her, and always having the urge to talk to her, and even though I usually try and prevent myself from doing that (because I don't want to come off as clingy) I think she still picks up on it. Would you say that for the benefit of the chase, I should make a quick internal change to come off as on the go and hard to get? I remember back when I didn't feel like this about her (and consequently didn't think about her often) that she was a lot more attracted to me. So I think this may be pretty accurate with our case. The internal change really isn't a problem for me. I can easily change my entire attitude towards someone in a day and make it real, so if this IS the best course of action, please don't hesitate to tell me so. Thank you for all of the help so far guys :]
