I'm curious how many women out there can only have clitoral orgasms? Is there a way to get more senitive to sexual intercourse? I like sex, but the only way it seems I cum is if I'm basically rubbing and fucking... (seems if you had first experience at a young age it stayed clitoral)
i get the most intense orgasms from clitoral, as most women do. however, i think the reason it's percieved as "staying clitoral" after having experiences with solo orgasms at young ages is that vaginal orgasms are very different and much more subtle, leading a lot of women to discredit them as orgasms, or not develop them because they aren't mindbending in the same way as clitoral orgasms. however, i love vaginal orgasms, because the allow me to squirt, and they really are amazing, more relaxed, not so explosive. however, i always have to finish off with a clitoral orgasm. otherwise i just feel worked up without any release.
I thought it was just a biological thing, and you couldn't really do much to change it. Clitoral for me.
You got it dead on. I don't squirt (I only have once) but I love vaginal orgasms. The buildup to them is really amazing and they're more relaxing, but when I have one, I don't feel "finished" if a clitoral orgasm doesn't happen afterwards. Also, I can have MANY vaginal orgasms in a row - as many as 7, in fact. But my clit gets way too sensitive for me to have another clitoral. I have to wait in between.
i can usually get 4 or 5 clit orgasms in a row (have to wait about 30 seconds after with little to no stimulation before i start to build up again) before my clit stops responding lol! but vaginal orgasms are unlimited for me. usually the longer i go with good vaginal stimulation (usually from fingers/hands rather than penis or other stimuli) with intermittent clit stimulation, i start squirting and go on squirting till i'm so dehydrated i choke lol! once i start having vaginal orgasms, they just don't stop until the stimulus is removed or i have a clit orgasm. then they can, but usually don't continue if i go on to have more clit orgasms. but my orgasms have "progressed" as i grow personally, so i know they're really closely related to my personal self-satisfaction (in a non-sexual way lol!), and it'll be interesting to see where things are a few years from now!
Not a woman, but I thought I'd relay a couple of experiences I had with women (girls, really) many years ago. The second girl I ever had intercourse with, I gave her her first orgasm ever. I used my fingers on her, and I did it in such a way as it stimulated her vagina and clit simultaneously, so her first ever orgasm was a combination of vaginal and clitoral stimulation. She became a vaginal only cummer. She didn't even want me "wasting time" eating her. She wanted something inside her. This makes me wonder how much of a woman's orgasm is psychologically tied to her first orgasm. I could make her cum with my fingers inside her or my dick inside her, but when I tried stimulating only her clit, she couldn't get into it. She'd just tell me to hurry up and get my dick inside her (not that I minded that, per se; it's just that I was always looking for multiple ways to please her, and I loved eating pussy). I ran into another woman who was exactly the same a number of years later (both girls, oddly enough, were named Tiffany). Same thing with her, she didn't want clitoral stimulation, she wanted something up her **** and she wanted it hard and fast (who doesn't?). I didn't know her very well, so I never got to ask her about her first orgasm to determine if her first orgasm was a vaginal one, which made her prefer vaginal orgasms for the rest of her life. Maybe we can try to figure that out here. How many women who prefer vaginal orgasms had their first orgasm ever be a vaginal one? I would imagine the number of women who first had clitoral orgasms is probably much higher than the number of women who first had vaginal orgasms. I love reading about women's orgasms. There's nothing that gets me hard faster than a woman having an orgasm or talking about her orgasms. Almost all of the porn I watch involves watching women masturbating to orgasm. My favorite is watching women cum on a sybian because the orgasms are so intense and usually multiple in nature. Fortunately for me, my wife is multipally orgasmic, and I can enjoy watching her (and making her) cum many, many times. Thank you so much to all you sexual, liberated women (and men) who are willing to talk about your sexual lives online here. It's nice to know I'm not the only one who is crazed about sex.
i think that just as some people like ketchup and others don't, some women prefer one type of orgasm over another. it may be just as simple as that. i like ass play and other such "kinky" things that some women find a huge turn off. we're all just so different in what we like, that it's hard to say if it has anything to do with first experiences with things or not. it's possible, but is there really any way to say definitively? interesting things to think about!
