Guys, i badly need help...i love this gal, and i love her a lot. A lot, that i sheded off nearly 25lbs of extra weight for me but, till i did it, i had to go very far from her. Actually, i passed out my high school and she is still there. I want to date her but, still missing out on how to approach her? She doesn't know me and she is 3 yrs younger than me. Any young girl can help...
Until you lost weight you had to "go very far from her"? Why? Were you that worried that your previous weight would gross her out? Well now that you're almost 25 pounds lighter, are you more confident now? Because whatever approach you take, you will need confidence in yourself. Not to the point of being obnoxious, but enough to approach this girl and talk to her.
I have got enough of the confidence to talk to her, but still i am worried about saying her anything that may ban me forever in her life. And, that "had to go far thing" means, earlier i could have talked her anyday because we were in same school but, now i am 5 hrs away from mine and 6 hrs away frm her home. What should i say and what not???
speak from the heart and if that dont work punch her in the mouth and wqlk there are more fish in sea than you or me will ever catch just kiddin about punching her in the mouth definatly dont do that but if you speak from the heart how can you go wrong
I think any girl would LOVE if someone complimented them and asked them on a date. Some might say it would be creepy, but it's still flattering. Be sweet, soft, and not too intense so that you do scare her away, but just let her know you like her and want to take her out or something.
Thnx for the advices, friends. I hope they all will work. But hey! Can u gals n guys tell what does a girl of her age, like to hear and how would she like to be approached? I am confused about that..@@@
Well one things for sure, if you say she doesnt know you, dont hit her with the fact that you've been obssesed with her for the last 3 years and done all this stuff becausde of her, she might get the wrong impression heh, wouldnt hit her with that until you two are friends/closer to each other.
Yeah! Thats the thing one of my female friends told me...i have talked to girls of my age but, not younger. Whenever she comes in front of me, i lose my words away. I am thinking about talking to her n tell her that she's nice n i would like to have friendship with her...would this flee her away? I dont think but, may be i can have some female perspective help here!!!
Well! I am worrying about that and thats what drew me to this forum...she already have had a boyfriend earlier and even if she had feelings for him now is no bad for me, because that will work as a wall for others not for me, 'cause i am an expert in breaching and damaging relations...ha
yea I find it amusing how teens claim they have this all-powerfull "relationship" then come on and claim they are near death due to their supposed signifigant other cheating on them in an instant...
I have torn apart many of my friend's so-called "long term relationship". Its all about finding a loose point in the relationship and making it as big as well. Its damn easy.@@.
