Hi Well this is a problem that has only recently come up... I get over excited way way to quick. I get my girl to orgasm through oral at the moment as I just can't stay the course. I have a strong PC as I started working on that a long time ago and USED to be able to control my orgasm's very well but the last two months I just can't control myself I am over excited by touch and by thoughts and I just can't get away from that full total loss of control and letting go. I would like to try a few things to help/cure my problem as I want to perform like I used to. One thing I cant do is cum and carry on as we dont use condoms, we both love it when I cum inside but as it's just so messy with both our fluids covering the bed it then turns her off... I have used condoms to see if they help but they have failed so far... maybe Im just using the wrong sort. Any advice is welcome... Many thanks Mark
I've just started using Durex Performax condoms. They de-sensitize the penis so you have better climax control. Sex lasts 1-2 mins for me, but if I'm using these it goes 25+ mins
You can order them from www.durex.com I just realized you're from England. I have no idea if Durex is carried in stores there or not...
Yes we do have them here... want to try and stay away from comdoms. Im thinking of using a delay cream to tone down my sensitive reaction which ones are good there is one by Durex and as they r a trusted company by me i think i may try them 1st... any one used it?
Only problem with applying a cream, without wearing a condom, is that it might de-sensitize your girl also. I don't think you or she would like that... I don't know for sure though, I've never used a cream
I doubt using a tiny amount would cause her to loose feeling if applied 30mins or more prior to intercourse... Im thinking about the amount you would find used in the condoms. This is the cream I'm thinking of using... Durex Play Longer It's worth a try and if this can help me not get over excited then it's done its job... and if my partner still has all sensation then thats even better. But still if anyone has had experiance with these then please tell us the effects good bad etc... Thanks Mark
Check out my thread on ten techniques to overcome premature ejaculation in the "Sexual Health" thread below. PM me if you want more information.
