Want change...

Everything is always the same, nothing changes. I wake up, eat breakfast, go to my lectures, hang out with my friends, go home, have dinner, study, sleep. I want a change. I know only I can change my life, I can't wait for some amazing friend or guy who will change everything like in the movies. I need to change it myself, I want to change it, but I don't know how. I have concidered going aboard, I love to travel on my own because then I can be... I'm not bound to who I was or people think I was, I can be myself. But then I'm running away and when I come back (because I do love the people in my life so I don't want to leave them) everything will go back to how it used to be and any change I might go through will disappear. Like last time when I came back after being gone 4 months. Please, help me. Tell me what I can do to change, give me advice. Please.

 

What is it that you want to change in detail. As far as traveling why do you need to come back, forge your own way into and among other places. You can spend a lifetime and never go back, its been done and nothing stopping you either.

 

Well, you won't be in university your whole life. Try to study, also go to movies, theatre shows, and remember, there are also the holidays... then you can go to another city or even abroad if you wish so for a few days. Try to make the best of your holidays, visit various places...

 

you could get into hard drugs

 

Travel.

Save up for a plane ticket, bring some cash and your most valued possessions and go away.

Go to India, go to Thailand, Greece, Italy, Egypt, Saudi Arabia, anywhere.

 

The only one who can change you is you.

Going abroad is a fine decision. Are you running away or just changing your life for you? There is a difference.

Most people do not change. That is a fact of life. Most people are boring as hell too.

How about going away and not coming back?

It takes a lot of guts to walk away and not come back. Decide what you want and then go and do it.

 

Seeing as u are still in school, I'll assume that jumping on a plane to travel around is out of the question for awhile.
So how about eating dinner at breakfast-time (go to a 24-hr diner for this) or eat breakfast late at night. Why don't u and your friends go find a new coffeeshop and try the fancy flavored espresso's/latte's instead of regular coffee?

HEY WHEN I GET STUCK IN A BORING RUT...I CUT MY HAIR

 

You could always go the easy way and start drinking alot.

Sure does make life more interesting.

 

But drinking is bad. :huh:

 

Light your barn on fire.

 

The tree me and my friends took down and lay across their front yard last night would probably agree with you.

 

i keep my change in an old juice jar, with a hole cut into the lid.

 

Lol.
People do stupid things when they're drunk.
I am really happy when I'm drunk. I hug and kiss alot.

 

i suggest taking some acid and then coming to great realizations about yourself, and from that trip go forth unto your spiritual path and become the change you want to see


or drinking, yeah thats always worked for me
actually the funnest times i've had was doing stupid shit with my insanely crazy brother and friends completely sober

 

Doing stupid shit is one of the many great joys of life.

 

Oh yeah....I yesterday did the most stupid thing in my life. But well, its all part of life.

 

Had unprotected sex with a fat person?


I don't know if it could get any worse than that.

 

I signed a contract with the government.
And made a whole thread about it.


And this unprotected sex thing with a fat person.....Are you perhaps talking from your own personal experience ?

 

Yeah... the government is going to have your ass for 6 years. C'est la vie.

Sadly no, I am not speaking out of personal experience. A friend did tell me that I have never lived because I've never had sex with a fat girl.

I tend to disagree.

 

Well, I am not worried cause I believe that this country will collapse in six years.
I'd have to disagree with your friend as well.
What is he ? a chubby chaser ?