Need a partner :[

Hello :] I am a lonely single person, seeking a possible relationship... I have been single for so long, and I really can't stand it anymore.. I feel so deprived of of a significant other that it pains me..

So just for a general overview, I'm 16, bi, looking for (preferrably) a boyfriend, and my personality traits include, but are not limited to the following:

Social, optimistic, friendly, kind, caring, thoughtful, intellectual, and quite honestly I am one of the nicest and most gentle people I know.. I wouldn't (and couldn't!) hurt a fly! I really couldn't! I care too much about anything that lives, I even care too much about inanimate objects sometimes !

But on the bad side, I'm very indecisive, I think and worry too much, I have a tendency to overanalyze everything, and I have a lot of trouble assertive myself and being agressive.. I'm working on that, but I still think I'm hopeless in that department.

Anyways, back to the point :] If you would be interested in getting to know me a little better, please send me a private tell. I'm always up for talking to new people to make new friends, or whatever, and through PMs I can offer AIM, YIM, or MSN messenger screennames. I hope to hear from you soon, my special someone, if you're out there. Thank you :]

 

Hey. You sound a lot like me, including those specific traits you mentioned. And you're in NJ -- wherein, may I ask? I'm in Gloucester County.

I tried to send you a PM but it wouldn't let me. :/

 

maybe you have your PMs disabled... can you get enable them?

 

Oh, heh, yeah sorry about that.. They're not sending me an activation email thingy, so I can't activate em....

And I'm in mid-northern Jersey, pretty much. I don't remember the county name ^^;

 

most people on this forum are lonely. that's why they're on here.

 

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At your age just worry about getting through school. While in school you will start to meet new people, build new friendships and from there possibly find a relationship. Good luck man.

 

I have plenty of friends, because I attract people like crazy.. Well, I attract friends like crazy.. But sometimes, that can really get to me, as much as I enjoy it. Always being looked at as the friend, never being noticed as the potential partner. My education and social lives are balanced, and in check as of right now. The only thing out of balance is my love life, and I feel its time to fix that.

 

Well sounds like you have the social part down pat. Have you ever tried to stick your neck out and strike up a conversations with someone you would like to be more than friends with ? A lot of people say "I want a b/f" without even trying. They want to wait for someone to come to them ( i have been guilt of this).

Honestly i tell people to just have fun and enjoy life. That special someone is going to show up in your life when you least expect it. Trust me.

 

Most of my friends are girls, and even though I do have a fair share of boy friends, I don't think any of them are into dudes (xD)

A lot of my female friends tell me I'm very attractive and charming (not sure if they're just being sweet) but I do attract a lot of girlfriends. I just don't feel much fulfillment in girls anymore though, which is why I'm now stretching my sights to a boyfriend.

And yes I know I know my special someone is going to come to me some day And I don't know if they're a boy or a girl, but for now, I feel very empty in my relationship department, because relationships have always been very important to me. It's always meant a lot to me to have a girlfriend/boyfriend around :]

 

Do you go to places where you can meet gay guys ? Its a lot harder when you are really young. Does your school have a LBGT groups ? Or any in the area ? Thats might be a good start to help add to your gay friends.

 

Yeah but all the guys around here are pretty much dorks anyway and considering I'm friends with almost 90% of the school's population I would have expected to have met someone who seems like the guy dating type or, someone worth dating.

Yes, it is A LOT harder when you're young... that's why I've resorted to this forum, hehe

 

In my experience, people compliment you only if they mean the compliment, or if they have other motives... assuming your female friends know that you're into guys, they most probably mean it when they say you're attractive and charming.

You're attractive and charming! Believe it! Be confident in yourself and you'll attract whoever you want to attract

 

Except guys....

 

Why look for love at such a young age? Live it up, and be single! Enjoy the singledom. But if you're just looking for someone to be with. I would agree with the previous posts. An LGBT group at your school, or even outside of school, in the community is a way to start. Or just going out on the town, and keeping an eye out. Gay men are everywhere, you just have to be aware. Good luck!

 

Nooo I can't be single!! lol. Idk, its like my divine calling to be in a relationshipppp... alls I wants a little love :[

 

Ok you can be my b/f.

Do you cook ? clean ? and wash cars ?


kidding ;o)

 

I love to do all of those things actually

 

K, ill see you tonight. Dont forget to bring the bucket and sponge ! )

 

Hey. Since I can't send you a PM, I can give you my AIM right here -- it's ThirdEye919

What's yours?