The thing is that I dont know what is happening to me these days.... Ive always thought I was hetero...I ve felt in love with some guys, I lost my virginity with a guy, and I still feel attracted to some friends I have.... but the thing is that some weeks ago I had a sexual experience with one girlfriend, she is lesbian and I was so curious to experiment sex with her... and now I dont know if Im falling in love with her or what, cause we go out togheter as friends but at the same time as a date, and I think I see her as if she was a guy!!!! she.s intersexual and has an androgin look so I dont know if that is the reason....but Im very very confused...I see other girls and I dont feel any kind of atraction, and I think and remember the guys Ive been with and I feel attracted to them.... so am I a bi?? or whats happening?? thanks for your help. PEACE
you're probably not bi. sometimes people have random crushes on people that have little to do with sexual attraction...just kind of a weird liking of someone. like how there are some female celebrities that a lot of girls love for whatever reason. also, a lot of teenagers like to experiment with people they wouldn't usually be attracted to. it seems to be me that in general you're more sexually attracted to guys than to girls.
If she looks more like a guy than a girl, and she wears a strap on when she fucks you, and has smaller tits, etc., as well as a masculine attitude and persona....basically, if there is virtually nothing feminine about her....youre more or less straight. And if all that is true, it sounds like she may not be so much a lesbian as it is that she is experiencing...oh crap I forgot what its called, but its basically the reason people get sex changes, because they feel they were born the wrong gender? anyways...thats my basic theory I myself like men who look like men, and women who look like women, and nothing in between...and I myself have a lot of masculine qualities, but I am still feminine in my appearance (altho I AM low maintencance) and somewhat in my attitude, so I consider myself a very PURE form of bisexual, appreciating both genders for what they are and possessing a good balance of masculine and feminine energy myself ok so when Im stoned, I chat a lot and get all wordy...sorry about all that that was long ha ha
Whats the big deal.. If you think your falling in love let it happen ! Authenic love is so hard to find... why reject it when it comes around ? Im not going to opine of you straight or gay... It´s just a matter of who you fancy ! I took that last part from Mark Renton - Trainspotting
Yeah, go with the flow. I say congrats. Don't get hung up on what label you want to call yourself, its not really important.
I agree. People get way too caught up in labels. Enjoy feeling something new. Just because you feel this for this person doesn't mean you won't or can't find that attraction that you're more used to when you look for it.
I'm with those three. Who cares what label you stick on yourself? Just have a good time. If you're still dating girls in ten years, come back to this thread and we'll tell you that we're starting to suspect you dig girls.
well I feel better after reading your posts, and of course youre right....now Im not that confuzed, thanks all. Good vibs for everyone.
