'ew some creep hit on me'

yeah but your girl rocks unusually hard. she doesnt even get jealous, and ive never really seen her get upset.

lots of guys who hit on me are indeed creepy. Like if its my dads friend, or he follows me from the mall to the book store, or stalks me when i'm shopping. lol, all true stories.

but if its jsut a regular guy hitting on me, i dont think its creepy. more like. aw.

 

totally depends on how the dudes doing it. if its natural, flirtatious or flattering whatever. if its looking you up and down like youre meat, liek he owns you or like he feels entitled to be inside you right then and there... ick

 

Well for the most part, yes


There are subtle signs and indications of interest which range from eye contact, to body movement, to voice and language cues.


You can’t pickup on these signs if your eyes are concentrating on her cleavage


Hotwater

 

Whatevrr says we. YOu should really know women are just bad.

But anyway, I agree with Allonym. There is a way to look at women that isn't objectifying.

HOWEVER, women also objectify men with their aloofness and cockteasing.

It's all a part of a big biological circus.

P.S. Why is it that some kinds of smile in certain situations is creepy, and certain others comforting?

 

I'd like to think it's because he was a broke crackhead, and not on the merits of my hoedom.

 

Just because you're complimenting a girl doens't mean you're trying to pick her up. And sometimes those subtle signs are too subtle for people or not apparant.

Also, I think I need to start counting how many people assumed that I made this thread because I was in the position. It's never happened to me I don't think.

 

plenty of creepy guys around...i've seen a few approach my sister. i wouldn't call them sociopaths, they're just creepy and no good for my baby sister

 

In theory even you tell a girl she has a nice ass or great boobs it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re trying to pick her up, but she’s likely to draw that inference.


Obviously something you said led her to believe you were on the make, or based on previous experience she assumed you were hitting on her.

Don’t let that put you off because most women are available

hotwater

 

Again, this didn't happen to me. You can assume it is all you want, but if you could have the decency to not accuse something on a hunch, that would be nice. It's not so fun to be called a liar, and it bugs me and makes me want to argue my legitimacy. Which is pointless and a waste of my typing joints that are coming closer to arthritis with every keystroke. Really, you don't have to believe me, but you don't have to tell me either.

 

I'd venture to guess that I've come off a creep before.

 

I was speaking hypothetically of course for the sake and ease of argument


Hotwater

 

I know what you mean. But I also think I can be a tiny overprotective at times too. (Got a sister myself, and I'm the sort that tends to brother girl friends.) I definitely don't give some of their potentials fair chances. I've learned to be better with friends, but my sister I'm not sure how I would act. I think she got herself pretty protected though. I think I'll have a talk about her with this actually. Make sure she got her shit on lock.

this post was really rambly and pointless, but meh

 

i haven't had to intervene - well, i did twice...but majority of the time, she can deal with them on her own.

 

My sisters a lesbian, so I don't really have to worry too much.

 

I know damn well I have. I can definitely be too forward for some girls. Once I got over shyness, my impatience took over and I like to toss courtesy aside. Luckily, I haven't run into much trouble with that.
Even when I was a creep =D (When I was like 15 and 16 I used to always prowl for cam girls on chat rooms.)
I don't really have to worry bout it, since I has me a girl but it still pisses me off.

I agree that she's likely, I don't know that she should. Then again, this is one of a billion things people tend to assume.

 

I only say it if it's like an old guy hitting on me

 

I haven't found out yet, my sister's an innocent. Luckily she watches so much (good) tv and movies and has strong insight on social things from it. She's never had any problems with peer pressure or any major troubles with friends.

 

I try not to worry about looking like a creep too much. I always have the best intentions.


Sometimes that involves rough sex. But I'm a really nice guy.

 

lol i dont mind until they try and stalk me, thats just odd XD though slightly funny...one guy stalked me and my friend and offered to pay and we had to kinda run off XD
other than that i think its flattering

 

Yeah, that's why I worry that sometimes I am a bit overprotective of the girls I brother. Some really nice fellas out there certainly don't talk like them. It's hard enough to find a guy you're compatible with without one of your male friends stopping you from talking to every guy that points out some sex appeal in you.