Judging People Based on Their Friends

Last year I considered breaking up with this girl because of her terrible taste. I didn't of course, but it made me think I was a very shallow man.

I hadn't talked to her in a couple months and she just sent me her portfolio the other day with no message attached.

 

Yeah, I couldn't date someone with bad taste in music or movies.

I demand perfection!

 

Well I did get to see her naked again yesterday. That was pretty perfect. I wonder if I'm just still on her mailing list.

I am kinda a snob though. I'm trying to get over it.

 

Being a snob ain't a bad thing.

A lot of people just settle when it comes to gettin' a mate.

I don't plan to settle for someone. I plan to get me someone special... with really good taste. (Liking The Velvet Underground is almost a must. )

 

I like women far prettier then I.

And I'm a beautiful man. I mean, I know you're not gay Pavel, but I'm kinda surprised you aren't trying to get me naked.

 

i finally found someone who does like many of the same things

its awesome to be able to drink beer with your guirlfriend listening to VU and weird underground records

 

Almost all my ex's blasted adult contemporary all the time. Hang on to ones with good taste.

 

i don't know if it's possible to find someone as twisted as me, i may have to settle......

 

what about one of these 2?

 

Like what... Phil fucking Collins?

...and that's awesome.

I think it's worth the wait, and I'm enjoying being single as it is.

So yeah, I'm still a youngin'... getting myself into something serious right now wouldn't be too good of an idea.

 

I don't think I should ever be with a woman who listens to Clay Aiken.

 

that was my experience way back then

I would draw the line at modern pop country, thats a deal breaker

 

the one on the right has excellent fashion taste, that jacket is brilliant
i think i'll go with him
plus look at that jewelry, he's probably rich
yay

 

This is not exactly country... but there was this hippie looking Jesus preacher on campus today who carried a guitar with him and walked around singing "Free Bird".

I wouldn't date him.

 

i would!

i met a magician last night
i was gonna give him my number but he disappeared

 

I also stopped calling a girl because she mixed up thai boxing and tae bo.

 

I met this mime last night, but I could not get through the glass box around them

 

Judging is a thing I tend to stay away from.

Deriving straight from Buddhist Philosophy
"The greatest wisdom is seeing through appearance."

It is pretty shallow to say

That in itself is judging. Not judging by friends, but for their outward appearance itself.
There is a fine line between observations and judgments, something that just struck me in fact, the other day. Since then I have almost come to a complete halt on judging, and therefore have no mental blocks about a person when first being introduced to them.

Namaste, John.

 

doesn't it just suck?
i'd love to meet a mime but i fear the glass box as well

 

People judge naturally.

I'd rather allow my mind free reign instead of imposing rules upon it.

I judge people... it's not necessarily a bad thing. I can avoid alot of people that I don't want in my life by judging. I'm good at telling someone's true character based on how they act and how they present themselves.

I can easily argue that judging people is both a social necessity and spiritually freeing.