Ok, I have this friend who I have gotten pretty close with, and one night we're at my house, and we start kissing & grinding..I' m still a virgin & he (unfortuately) has a gf. So naturally, I'm not ready to have sex with him..yet. I'm feeling really stupid & immature cause I have no idea what I'm doing, so I get off him & say "I can't do this". He just says 'ok' then I say "How could you do that, you have a gf, cheater" and kiss him, but then he grabs his coat & keys and leaves. I really like him, not just physically, but I really like him. Is what I did wrong? If the men could especially help me with this question, 'Why did he leave'? Was he mad at me or something? I'm really new at all of this & I don't know what to do or say to him (I havn't talked to him yet after this). Sorry if it was long (or boring), but I really need advice with what to do next..
yes, what you two did together was wrong when you both new he had a gf. he probably left ot keep himself from doing more, and to try and sort out how he feels. what to do next? no more touchign until hes single, but thats just my opinion
he left because you didnt have sex. you said no and he was like "ok, see ya". he may try to fuck you again. I doubt that he feels the same way about you as you do about him. He has a girl, so anything he has with you will only be sexual, which is ok if thats what u want. Maybe he can just be your oral sex slave.
Ummm ... I hate to sound all traditional and old fashioned here, but he has a girlfriend -- not a wife or [size=-1]fiancée. In my paradigm, there is no committment without at least a preposal of marriage. For that matter, without marriage, there is no sex either. But I concede that's not everyone's belief system. I'd just be a little careful about calling "cheating" on a girlfriend cheating. it cheapens the concept of marriage to give much validity to what most would define as a non-committed relationship (i.e. "girlfriend"). [/size]
He was looking to get laid and you shot him down. What makes you believe that he wouldn't be "grinding" with some girl if you were dating him. Trust me, given half a chance he would have "went there" and not thought twice about his girlfriend. If he was "into you" he would have tried to smooth things out (awkward moment) before he left. You said no, and he bailed screams he was out to get laid. JMO though....
You should remember he has a girlfriend and find a man of your own. Then again, if his girlfriend is a decent person, call him! You will be doing her a favor.
I say.....kick his ass! But then again, you'd have to kick your own ass too. I just say, talk to him and be like, "What the fuck Man?"
