This other thread about the lack of wet dreams reminds me of another issue: the pain I used to feel as a teenager and a young adult when my testicles were ready to explode due to an overabundance of sperm. Have you ever experienced some pain in your scrotum when you haven't ejaculated for a while? When I was younger (15-30!), if I went more than two days without ejaculation, I would feel that pain in my groin area, sometimes so severe that it would make me walk funny. Is this pain normal when the testicles are full. Strangely enough, I've never heard any guys talking about this seriously or openly, perhaps because some women think this is an excuse to have sex... (so I've heard).
I knew a guy who claimed the same, actually. It was never a "plz sex me up" kind of thing; more casual conversation. He always seemed kinda embarrassed if it came up; he'd joke around about it, y'know? Dance around the awkward topic.
MasterB i had that happen in the summer...goodness it had been like 2 weeks since i did anything and i gotta tell ya...i couldn't close my legs for a good five minutes afterwards
Ouch! I see where you're coming from! When it all came out, did you feel like someone was yanking your balls? I wonder why very few guys would talk about this awkward feeling!
It's called "blue balls", and if you don't get rid of the built up sperm by intercourse, masturbation or wet dream every week or so, you can do damage to your testicles. Some say the sperm is absorbed back into your body if not ejaculated, but I don't believe it. For many years, I have made sure it is gone from my system at least every four days or so, by one means or another. And at last checkup, my prostate is very healthy.
i used to get pains in my lower abs when id be having sex and nut like 6 times...thats about it, and i had blue balls once when i was 14. had to ride my bike like 6 miles home too it sucked...
blue balls dude. thats common. Me and my buddies would talk about that shit in middle school all the time. My first kiss and feel up, being as young and unknowledgable as we were we didnt go any farther...and I didnt know how to yank one out. So my balls hurt for days after that.
Thank you guys for your input. I didn't know that shit was called "blue balls"; I feel smarter now for knowing this. Back when I was a teenager, 2-3 days was the maximum I could go without beating the snake; after that... blue balls. I wonder how come I never had any wet dreams to get rid of my load...
Never had blue balls, other than getting extremely horny after being with a gril and not getting any. Can't say as I have ever experienced your pain. Personally, I don't know how anybody could go more than a week without spanking it, and only then because of conditions enforced upon you (like camping trips with family). I think the longest I have ever gone without an orgasm since I was 11 or 12 was five or six days, and not by choice, only decorum.
Sir, I believe this is because very few gentlemen go for more than a day or so without pleasuring their phallus; hence, they do not experience any discomfort.
This thread is a little gross (and a little sexy) actually but if they hurt why don't you just masturbate or have sex before they start to hurt?
The pain is due to the "pooling" of sperm which tends more to occur with a big load. You can generally fix it with a nice ball massage: gently "cradle" the base of them and swirl/rub them in a circular fashion. From there you can also lift them gently and let them back down (always helps if sac is relaxed, or "distended"). That's worked for me. I've gone a really long time - as difficult as that was - without finishing while also avoiding the pain.
Well, surprisingly Phierce Phallus, some respondents have admitted going without ejaculation for 5 days... and even 2 weeks in one case! Ouch, that hurts!
Hi Jia: "Gross"! I think talking about menstruations is grosser than that, but it's your opinion. And why don't we just masturbate before the pain starts... I can think of a couple of reasons... different people have different needs, while some of us could go without it for 2, 3... 5 days, some need to baste the ham every couple of hours, and as time flies, who can afford interrupting his class/work day every hour to clamp the pipe? And one important detail: the more often you do it, the more semen/sperm is produced by your body... So if you consistently choke your chiken, say, twice a day, and then suddently it's exam prep time at school and you're too busy (and too stressed out) to even think about it, and then you go for... 3 days... 4 days without changing your oil... then your pipes are prone to blow up in your face and make a scene... And then a vicious circle is established, because when you feel that pain, even masturbation can be painful too.
No problem and feel free to PM me with Q's. A method I forgot to mention that's actually my favorite: All I do is lay down on my back in bed with covers and give my balls space to hang, and once the scrotum is warm and relaxed I bring my legs together a bit and slowly tilt left to right and back again, repeating. Basically what happens is the balls roll onto the leg, then to the center, and then onto the other leg. It's a more passive way to do it and so it's more relaxing, definitely works though.
