Hey um I need some advice about something just thought u guys could maybe help... Ok well there's this guy that i've had a crush on for a couple months and its growing into more than just a crush. We hang out probly like once every other weekend but its always through other people. (His friend will call me and see if i want to come over, or Ill call one of his friends and see if they want to come over u know..) and we always are talking when we hang out. So one of my friends told me that He said he didnt want to lead me on cuz he didnt want a girlfriend right now. Then the next week i guess he thought about it and he said he wants a relationship now and he likes me i guess. But me and him havnt ever talked about anything like that so i'm not like totally positive if he is in to me like i'm in to him. I mean all of the signs are there and stuff but we are both pretty shy and so we just have casual conversations and never anything more. I mean its kinda pathetic because obviously he knows i like him and i know he likes me "indirectly tho". sooo yeah i dont know what to do. I guess i just dont know how to tell him how i feel cuz i'm kinda shy and i dont date very often. eee i'm not good with this shit!!
ask him to hang out. what works is if you both smoke, say you guys should chief together sometime and invite him over. great bonding happens when smoki9ng herb....lol
i have asked him to hang out and we have smoked together but i mean we have never just hung out me and him. And i dont have his number i dunno its weird
I was in a similar situation once. I was always hanging out with a guy who I met through mutual friends and from what I heard....he was into me on more than a friendship level. And I was into him. But both of us were quite shy with each other... I was 18 and he was 20 at the time. Anyway, nothing ever came of it because I ended up meeting my exboyfriend in the mist of all this and our connection was so strong....the other guy was kinda like a distant memory after that But wouldnt you know as soon as he found out about the other guy he started calling like crazy and turning on the charm. Heh. He was so cute *sigh*. Anyway, my advice to you dear would be to simply ask him what's up with you two....and if you truely are too shy to do that then just keep on chillin' with him and if there is a connection there then things will kinda work out all on their own. Don't sweat it too much I really hope that things work out for you Let us know, K?
