Hi there I am new to the site I have a question I have a friend who i have known all my life,A long time ago we had a brief romance but I was young and he went to prison I moved on and met the man i am now married to,ME and my friend still keep in touch and we are still close but he and his fiance who is also a very good friend of mine drove up north to visit us and he did some things that make me feel that hes still in love with me could it be?
No I do care for him but I am in love with my husband,he just did things while visiting that made me question his intentions.
I think it was more of a "I haven't seen you for awhile, and maybe I still feel a little something" feeling in him... I think it was superficial, or maybe a better word would be residual feeling. I'm sure he is and will continue to be happy and in love with his fiance. There was just a bit of nostalgia taking over. There's nothing to be done.... I say let it go.
I had a girlfriend in college. When I went to visit her and her husband with my first wife, I still loved her. I'll always love her. This isn't to say I wanted to change anything. She talked too much, and she was too conservative. LOL But if she thought I still loved her, she was right. And I still love her now, though I haven't talked to her for several years now. The question is, as mara-aum pointed out: What do YOU feel? And what do YOU want? If you're happy with your husband, as you say, then it seems to me there is no issue. But if that's true, then why are you concerned about this at all?
because i do not want to be the cause in any way of coming between him and his fiance i have known her for years also.and i care about her friendship And people are always saying something stupid.
Here's the message I see being presented to you: Be comfortable with yourself, with the feelings you have and who you are. You have a journey ahead, and this message could be a helpful guide.
