What do you like in men? What is it that makes you appreciate him, care for him, respect him as a woman?
I'm not in love with my boyfriend, but I do love some things about him. How he does little dumb things when trying to be sweet is what I love the most. he trys so much to be sweet but just can't pull it off.
My man cherishes the ground I walk on. He lives to see me happy and do everything he can to make sure I'm happy. I love the fact that he's a firefighter. It is such an amazing profession...I admire him for it. I respect him for his superiority qualities-not necessarily with me...but he keeps me in check when I'm being a little crazy. He's all around an amazing man in my eyes!
I love how my boyfriends hair rests around his shoulders like spun gold, I love his eyes and the glasses that frame them. I love how he'll stand up for me (even when he knows I'm wrong) to everyone, including his parents. I love how he loves me, because thats not easy to do
I love my fiance because we have a very strong connection. We understand each other better than anyone else and sometimes better than we understand ourselves. The physical stuff (looks, sex, etc.) is not why we are in love; it's more about the emotional support we provide each other. We give each other a reason to live when it seems that we can't or are unable to handle the curve balls that life throws at us. We have seen our share of crazy shit (for starters, his sister's house burned down last week, Tuesday he was committed to a hospital, and today moved into a half-way house) which might have driven other couples apart, but these events just strengthen the foundation of our relationship! Peace and love
BrokenJohnny shut up, You've been an asshole you don't even have a vagina so what do you care? Ellex, you're a smart girl. Just have fun and enjoy. And it's GOOD that you say you're not in love with him because it shows you know that you're not mature enough. So keep it up girl. *ahem* now, i love my husband because... 1. He always knows what to say when I'm down. 2. He doesn't complain when I don't cook a full meal. (I try sometimes ladies but with two of us, we realized its too expensive and not much point.. he doesn't even eat as much as me.) 3. Just hearing him say the words "I love you" makes me melt, still. *Sigh*
I also think it's smart of you Danii, to not love just yet. Enjoy those years and just have fun. And BrokenJohnny, I was in plenty of relationships through highschool where I wasn't in love...does that make me a bad person?
LOL... Stop thread-hijacking BrokenJohnny. It's annoying the fuck out of me, and most people in here.
I dont know why,but i do. And i do very much. We may have some problems, but i count on him and i feel conected with him and i cant imagine not to have him. First of all he is my friend and i need him.
I listen to my husband. I dont argue with him. If he wants to do or go a certain place, Im right behind him with a smile. Im growing up, and I dont want it my way. I live to serve others and im content with life.
I love him because he's intelligent. And he's exceptionally honest. He looks after me. And we have a very good connection.
I love everything about my boyfriend. He treats me good, is there when i need him, helps me out when im having problems, makes me smile when im feeling down, and takes care of me when im sick. Hes someone i can talk to who will give me positive feedback. And even though we have our little problems here and there we dont give up because we love eachother too much to let go. I love him so much and couldnt see myself with anybody else. I cant wait to spend the rest of my life with him.
Well, I broke up with my old boyfriend I orginally posted about, so I'm gonna post about my new one... I love how he calls me Kitten and always smiles when he says it...I love how even when he's asleep he moans when I touch him...I love how he stayed by me when everyone else left....I love how he try's so damn hard to make me feel better about what everyone else did to me. Most of all I love how I trust him and feel safe with him, and all the little things that he does to make me feel like I'm the one for him...even if i'm not...which only time will tell...
I can see how you want to please your husband, but tell me you don't let him have control of everything! sheesh. women and wives need to be listened to also! anywho, i just have a boyfriend, and i love him because he's really cuddly, he can always make me laugh, he cares enough about me not to cheat on me, he's never cheated on me, he apologizes when he realizes he's made me upset, and when he says "I love you" i get the warmest coziest feeling ever! hehe. and he always says when are we gunna get married, lets have 5 kids, etc, i think it's real sweet.
I love his intelligence, I love how he thinks like me, I love the similairity between us, I love his looks, his family, his interests, everything he does..
I love my boyfriend because he's willing to give me a good spanking. lol But as long as we're talking about what lovepeacelife said...that's not how I am at all. I love my guy because he completely understands why I might want to be tied up in the bedroom, but I expect to be completely equal to him as soon as we're out of it. My kinks have nothing to do with who does the dishes or makes the decisions. Canadagirl, some submissive women take it a lot further than I do and prefer that their guys control them in the rest of their lives too. It's possible that that's sortof where lovepeacelife is coming from - in which case I don't understand at all, but...whatever makes her happy, I guess. Lovepeacelife, I hope this is a conscious and informed decision on your part, rather than, y'know, something less enlightened. You might find that your way is pretty fun sometimes too, though.
