Silent Sex

There is no shame in silence. Dad used to say that a good meal inspired silence from everyone who appreciated it. Too busy eating, I guess. Same with me and good sex! Too busy enjoying myself, besides which my tongue is occupied in less selfish physical expressions. Nothing wrong with you moaners and more boistrous happy hoppers, but leave me out of it. Lemme know, Suncatch22, and we can share some silent moments!

 

I would rather have a girl be silent in bed rather then her trying to fake it to make me feel good. I can always tell anyway, so its a real turn off.

Just do what you want and be how you want to be...dont change your self.

 

Man, I'm loud even if I don't get off.

 

Ooo, yea.....

 

I tend to be fairly quiet most of the time, however I do show physically that I'm enjoying it.

Never fake it - for what? - for whom?

 

i wish i was i silent lover, but sadly i'm not.when i come, i know, the person i'm doing it with knows and all the nabours know as well!!
i'm a serious squeeler you see so i feel sorry for the nabours.. seriously i do.. oh well, i'm having fun that's what counts

 

Meh, just get drunk next time .

 

i find it really boring when a person is quiet. a real turn off too. i don't like a guy to be screaming his head off or anything but if he makes no noise at all, i go insane.

 

ive never had sex before, but i think i'd personally enjoy it alot more with a girl who'll let me know in some way wether she's feelin' it or not.. but yeah, it's definitely the screaming and moaning that does it for ol' pete... lol..

 

lol, im so loud XD poor old lady whose house is attached to mine, hopefully shes slightly deaf besides if get too loud my bf just kisses me or whatever, and we talk sometimes which can be odd if its about something fairly normal, sometimes im louder than others though, with the moaning n stuff not talking

 

silence is nice,
like Fastswitch Said. . . its like At the dinner table. . no shame in Silence

It deffinatly changes alot with me.. and who im with, and wat is goin on. .
sometimes i cant help but to make noise. other times im silent and that works to.. hmm

 

Ya I kinda of am a loud girl while Iam having sex.. my guy likes the sound of me moaning it makes him so turned on.. Sometimes I wish I was more quiet.. cause I guess when I am "being quiet" I am not really.. cause we were having sex while his roommate was home and I guess I was not quiet enough and he put a pillow on my face... lol so I wish I was quiet at times. but they are both good.. it is all the person you are with which makes sex amazing not being quiet or loud.

 

That's because your orgasm is more likely REAL ! I can assure you that real orgasm is not something fake from a movie (with Meg Ryan ) which really is just laughable.

I think some women have little or no idea of what the real thing is unless they have experienced it for themselves.

And how could they unless they had experienced it ?

I'm delighted that you have resisted the temptation to lie.

The only guys that will believe that you are having an orgasm whislt screaming are the deluded and the ones that have an i.q below 30.

I actually believe that you have had the real thing.

I also firmly believe that you should not hasten sex, just take your time there's no hurry and if there is you need to change things so that you have all the time in the world. ( this is for everybody else ).

 

Just be yourself - does the guy want you to fake it ?

Surely not ?

I must admit it is erotic for a women/girl to moan just quietly, even if it is fake, the idea that a women is really enjoying it is powerfully erotic, but know that it may be fake, or deliberately fake as long as you both know it ( if you are a guy )and do try hard to be lovely to your partner, in the end you might just really be on the end of the real thing, and I can tell you it will be one of the most incredible experiences of your life.

 

Ok lets think about this for a second or two.

If you are thinking along these lines you are probably too concerned about what your partner is thinking, when you should be just relaxing and enjoying it.

This negative self talk leads to not having an orgasm.

If he "is" thinking that, maybe he ain't worth your company !?

I think I am starting to understand why some women get there and most don't, and I firmly believe its my own fault in some ways because I have this expectation which puts pressure on women to have an orgasm.

Maybe I should not think like this and just relax a little in the hope that I will be lucky.

(I still keep up the good foreplay though )

 

just be yourself! let them know that you enjoy it by movement, facial expressions, etc... but if your lover is in tune with you they will know if you are enjoying yourself! i moan sometimes, but a lot of times i'm just a "loud breather." whatever works for you, and feels natural, do that, and don't let anyone make you feel like you should "fake it" with anything!

 

im the same as you, suncatch. i dont make any noise or make any faces or anything. ive tried faking it but i feel stupid making noise. as long as the guy doesn't mind, it should be fine.

 

i noticed something odd, im really loud unless im about to have a big orgasm then i go quite quiet, strange

 

i dont think u should fake it for a man...but...if u woudl like to change..maybe u can try acting it while u are doing it alone......u know what they say.....believe u are screamer and u will become one

 

i am totally with u, just be yourself! it really depends on my mood and where i am. i am more a moaner than a screamer, but it's all natural, i just let myself go. though i have to quiet myself down a little in place like the bathroom on the plane.... u know what i mean.