are there any certain boundaried one must cross to consider themselves bisexual? or is it simply a label such as anything else? When it comes to love i know that it knows no boundaries. i am free to love whomever i want no matter what gender or race. But when it comes to sex - thats where i get confused. i know i am not gay, because gay people usually say that they knew they were gay from a very young age. well, i grew up like any straight girl - totally boy crazy and experimenting with boys, ect. however, as i get older and put more thing in perspective i am now realizing an attraction i have to girls. i dont know if its sexual or what but there is definetly an attraction there. a strong attraction. in fact, its been so long since i have liked a man that i have been beginning to question it. is it even possible to be bisexual? i know this is probably a stupid question but obviously its something i need help to understand. i think i am probably bi sexual. but i have always felt that "bi sexual" is just a label one gives themselves to push away the thought of them being homosexual. that all bi sexual people end up being homosexual. i know this really isnt true. so. i dont know what my point is here. these are just thoughts, and i am confused.
to me, bisexual is when you have physical and mental attraction to both sexes. im only 17, but growing up i have always been boy crazy, but when i met my girlfriend, i fell for her hard. I am still attracted to guys, but i realize i am also attracted to girls. I have also realized that i can hold a relationship with a girl and have all the feelings involved as well....that proves to me that someone is bisexual. I know im not gunna stop being attracted to guys or girls. i dont know if this helps at all...? but i tried, heh.
Being Bisexual is as distinct as being Homosexual or Heterosexual. To me, loving both sexes mentally and physically (I knew this from 13 years of age) feels natural. =)
