so I've been with this girl for a little over a year now. She doesn't really smoke, though she has a number of times, a few of them being with me. She recently decided she simply did not like being high, and wasn't going to smoke anymore. This frustrates me because not only do i enjoy smoking, but i enjoy being with her, and mixing the two would be awesome. I feel bad pushing her to smoke (not that it ever really works, or i ever really pressure, just offer) because i found out she feels so uncomfortable when high. She described it as the type of anxiety where she feels she'll never come down from the high. Now I'm not trying to turn my girlfriend into a pothead, i just want her to have fun with pot and therefore be up for smoking with me every now and then, and also just be ok with pot in general. any advice?
I married a girl who had never toked once, yet was okay with me growing weed in the closet. She was drunk once and was willing to smoke. She didn't like it, but tried again without drinking before, and still didn't like it. A lot of people just don't like their minds to become more fluid. Sometimes emotions come out that they didn't know they were capable of, and it is kinda scary to them. It's hard for me to see that not everyone has a closet grow and tokes their product, since I find it so awesome and fulfilling. Nevertheless it's true; most people can't handle weed.
Accept that pot isn't for her. I am similar, only in my case, my girlfriend doesn't like the idea of it and doesn't want to try it.
dont force, offer politely occasionally. as long as she doesnt get uncomfy when you are high, i see no problem
my girlfriend used to blaze up with me ona daily basis.....then she just quit one day...and im like ...uuum ...okay....i mean like thats cool...but what am i supposed to do now?....she doesnt even really want anything to do with it now, like she doesnt care if i smoke but she doesnt like it in the car and shit....she gets a little fustrated when she wakes up in the morning and im still in bed and i ask her to roll me a joint...lmao