Does your wiife entertain your bi desires with a dildo or strapon? She was the first one to tell me that I would be good at sucking cock , while I deep throated a hand held dildo. One thing led to another and we eventually got into strapon play, where I would exercise my oral and anal talents. It turned out to be great alternate sex play.
I would like to explore that desire....but wife.... is not into it at all. Oh well, maybe in another life.
I have always wanted to do some of that stuff. My wife isn't into it either. Wondering how you fulfill your bi desires without causing problems with your wives.
I fulfill my boyfriend's fantasies by inviting another guy into the bedroom. We've had three-somes a couple of times. It's a huge turn on for me as well.
This is right up my alley (so to speak), as my wife and I enjoy a happy, healthy, and fully bisexual fantasy life, with no desire to "go live". And my answer would be, "You don't." At least, you don't do it cold, and drop it on her head out of nowhere. If your wife doesn't come from a more liberal, accepting upbrining, you're going to have to work up to it. The first thing you have to do is find out what your wife thinks about bisexuality as a concept. And do it in a playful way, rather than do it as though you're confronting a serious issue in therapy. If it - and by "it", I mean guy/guy OR girl/girl - truly skeeves her out, then you might as well stop there. It ain't happenin'. Not now, not ever. If she's intrigued by girl/girl, well, now you've got something. You'll have to spend time cultivating that feeling until she's free with it, but once she is, that's when you can make your own hidden desires known. If she's fair-minded, she'll let you keep them, and play the same way she now gets to. And if they end up turning her on, well, now you've hit the jackpot! -J
Hi, In the last couple of years I have become very bi-curious and my wife has been very supportive of my fantasies. She has become very assertive and liberal in our bedroom, allowing the use of dildos and a strapon cock. I have taken on more of a feminine role, sucking and fucking “her cock”. We finish things up with her snowballing me or with me licking her clean. For many reasons we don’t want to bring another person into our bedroom. But we do find using toys and our imagination very satisfying. Ronnie
