The horrible 'x's

Just wondering everyones opinion, some people can stay friends with their ex's after break ups, other relationships aren't hardly worth making it work.

Most people I know say ex's are your ex's for a reason, but what if you were friends before you dated, can you just go back to being friends?

 

I have never remained friendly with my xSO's. Not possible for me.

 

I would like to remain friends but it never goes that way. The girl always does something that makes me not want to even try. Just seems to happen that way ^^

 

I am supporting mine, she is here but anyone of you is welcome to have here. Past criminal records will not be an issue just let me know the worse the crime the more likely i will want her to go your direction.

 

I'm kind of friends with one of my ex's. He was my best friend before the relationship. We fought for years after the end of it. He told a friend of his that I broke his heart. Oh and his wife hates me so we don't get to talk much. But I still care about him, and will do anything to help him.

 

There is absolutely no reason that you can't be friends if it was an amicable split, but if one or the other hold some sort of resentment or loving feelings, then the friendship will quickly turn into a few steamy sex sessions and more resentment and bad feelings.

If you're all growed up, you can remain friends with just about anyone.

 

If you even try, you have to at first have a period of seperation and actually allow yourself to get over old feelings.

 

In some cases that may be true but sometimes all the separation in the world isn't enough preparation for the first few times you start to hang out with your ex. Its all about getting comfortable in tragic restraint.

 

This is true as well, Waking. Sometimes its too emotional. And alot of times, you just shouldnt be friends with someone, particularly if they disrespected you.

 

That is, of course, unless you have a taste for revenge.

 

I have a sweet tooth really.

 

I've only really stayed friends with one ex and our relationship was more like friends with benefits anyway. The rest I talk to every now and then, but not near enough to consider them friends.

 

Unfortunate.

Making ex's cry is fun.

 

I stayed friends with my ex for a while..... boy was that a boring time of my life..... gosh, we had nothing in common. I'm glad we don't talk anymore.
However, if the breakup was amicable, or if we were friends before we started dating, I might remain friends with an ex.

 

I usually cry. but like, on my own. I dont like making scenes.

 

You're on the wrong side of the fight caight.

No boy is worth crying over.

Except Justin Timberlake. And maybe Brad Pitt.

 

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Im no good in relationships, so making a girl cry is one thing i look forward to. That keeps me from crying.

 

It's possible. Both people need to want it though. They can't just be saying it because it'll make them seem like a better person.

 

I'm still friends with everybody I dated in my life. Me n my highschool sweetheart are really good friends ... her and a few other girls I dated wrote me a lot while I was in prison. My wife is cool with it too.
We had a big party a few weeks ago and there were 5 girls there that I used to date there.

I guess it's just a matter of knowing when to get out of a relationship, and treating people with respect even when you are going through those few hard days of the actual breakup.

If you do things right, the people you have been in love with can always be a part of your life.
The relationship I share with those women are very important to me! They are some of my best friends .

 

some boys are though, special people in my life, I care about, and that wont change for a special few.


The girls at my work are beyond jaded. Talking about boys only being as good as what they can give you and all that. .... I could never say that.