guidence for woman on top please

no i havent he was my first of everything bf the whole deal

 

do you like your husband?

 

i love him to bits its just the sex i have this huge problem with, i honestly thought all this time that what i experienced during it had been the norm for everyone

 

does he have any idea that you're having such thoughts as you've posted here?

 

yes

 

well, there are obviously no easy answers for your situation. but it's a real bummer for sure. wish i could offer something concrete that you could do to improve things, but you seem to have really been through the mill already. honestly, i think what you would benefit most from right now would be a break from the whole issue. maybe someone else here will have something useful to offer. if you just feel the need to talk to someone, feel free to pm me anytime.

 

yes and thanks for your time and patience we certainly got some post up on here didnt we?