What do you think?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Tamee, Sep 19, 2004.

  1. Tamee

    Tamee naked

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    I had sex with a guy just four hours ago. He came and pulled out to realize that the condom had broken! He says he doesn't know whether he was inside me or not when he came, and I had semen all around my vagina. What do you think the chances are that I could be getting pregnant as I type this?
     
  2. northernlehigh97

    northernlehigh97 Senior Member

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    Really, really good....but I don't want to scare you.




     
  3. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    Go to a family planning clinic as soon as you can and get the morning after pill.
     
  4. The World of Dan

    The World of Dan FSMFTW

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    Get the morning after pill asap.
     
  5. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    well the sperm are probably still swimming around in your uterus...they're little tykes so it takes a while to reach the egg. the chances of you getting pregnant are less than 50 percent but still far too high to take any chances. definatley get the morning after pill, no ifs ands or buts.
    and theres nothing like a vaginal cum shot, mm mmm mmmm.
     
  6. Tamee

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    I'm not down with the morning after pill
     
  7. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    Well, if your not down with the morning after pill, I hope your up on being a mama if you do indeed become pregnant. Whatever happens I wish ya the best.
     
  8. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    ^^^Why not??


    If it's a concern for the safety, they've been proven highly safe.

    If it's an abortion issue, its not abortion. It simply prevents the egg from implanting. I understand that some people still have reservations, and I respect that. Anyway, it's your choice.

    As far as how big is the chance of becoming prego. About as good as if you had no condom at all. FYI Over the course of a year, about 80-90 percent of women having sex without contraceptives will get pregnant.

    I hope all turns out for the best, and also consider an STD check.

    PEace
     
  9. Goldilocks

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  10. teckieguy

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    How about 20% chance? That scare ya enough to get that pill? ;)
     
  11. Tamee

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    yeah I'd rather be a mom.
     
  12. Tamee

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    It's just that I would rather deal with it naturally than ingest something that would make my body react differently than normal.
     
  13. Tamee

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    All I wanted to know was if you guys thought my chances were pretty good.

    I'm dealing with it like a human being.
     
  14. Tamee

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    Getting pregnant doesn't scare me.
     
  15. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    I don't think it should scare you. It seems to me that you are handling the situation quite well. I just know so many women who weren't smart about who they slept with. Father's are very important, I hope that when you do become a mother, you choose a good one.
     
  16. Tamee

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    I don't think you can really know whether or not someone will be a good father until they actually are a father.
     
  17. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    well, I'm just saying, I know I've slept with women before and thought to myself there's no way I'd want to raise a kid with this person. that kind of thing - some people demonstrate paternal traits though - responsiblity, commitment, etc, etc
     
  18. ahimsa

    ahimsa Senior Member

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    I'd just like to say that I really do hope it works out for you whatever you choose to do. I respect your decisions and know you'll do the right for you and your child whatever that right is for you.


    PEace
     
  19. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    ....okay i can understand u not wanting to have an abortion, but your agaisnt changing the way your body reacts? i hope you don't eat chocolate or drink coffee or smoke pot or have herbal teas or even eat for that matter. all these things change the way your body reacts...i know YOU feel ready to have a kid at this point...but what kind of life is the kid gonna live?

    i geuss to each is his/her own..but...your not just deciding your fate here.
     
  20. Tamee

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    eating is natural. taking a pill to disrupt a normal fuction in your body is not.
    I believe my kid would have a great life.
     

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