one very hairy situation (no joke)

ok so i gotta tell someone this shit cuz i need advice. so there is this girl that attends my parents church, and iv known her since she was like 10-11, now she is 13, and im pretty sure she is trying to seduce me or maybe a less extreme adjective is needed. but the point is that she is a cool girl and all, but im almost 20 and she will be starting high school, next year. this thing that she is doing is creeping me the fuck out, and making me worry, i know girls that have done the same thing shes doing when they were that age and i know that its a delicate situation in that i dont want to be responsable for a little girls heart, and i dont wanna be like "wait till your 16 and get your parents permission". i mean i am pretty immoral, but im not a fucking pedophile. cuz even if she waits till shes 16, im still some 22-23 yr old guy fucking a 16 yr old. i dont like this shitty situation, do any of you have suggestions to get me out of it without ruining some girls view on guys forever.

oh PS just so you know, i do NOT want to have sex with her. (before you all accuse me)

 

ignoring her advances seems like the best idea to me.

 

no. tell her no, that you just aren't interested, or that the age difference is too much. tell her parents, because otherwise she'll find somebody else who will fuck her, and ruin her life. tell the pastor that you are worried about her, because of the way shes acting.

be honest, she'll probably hate you for it, until she meets someone who isnt honest.
then she will understand.
PS, I am glad you arent a pedophile.

 

^ sounds like the best option.

 

i don't remember 13 year old girls being very hairy.

 

I would recommend letting the pastor talk to her alone after church in the back room at night.

 

act dumb and pretend like you dont know thats shes coming on to you, and just go on your way to doing whatever it is you do. ignore the damn girl. lol she'll get over it.

 

Ignore it, if that doesnt work, just tell her, that she's a kid, because she is. Im sure she'll be over it soon. When you are that young, you crush really hard and then move on quickly onto the next person.

 

mexicans?

 

lol its such a funny age with girls.... i would just say to her that aquaintances is all you wish things to be ,, kewl her jets etc.... in a language she can understand.... There is something about that age that does it to them lol,,, n i dunno if it a sexual thing really in the end at all....i think its more of a looking up to ,, finding the guys attractive and all the feelers that go into it.... either way its kinda screwy,,, lol having girls that went through it ... bein a mom n noticing n then having to talk to them aint no fun either

 

hahaha

 

Whoever said to tell your pastor or however you spell it is pretty dumb. She's a young girl with hormones starting to kick in. Can you imagine the embarassement that would put her through???

Just ignore her, and if she won't leave you alone just tell her that she's cute, but she's too young, and you don't feel like going to jail this year. She'll have something to think about for awhile, and hopefully move on the next boy.

I wouldn't worry about it. It's not like she can force you to do anything with her.

 

Dont give in, its bad for both of you. You know shes going to be all bitchy afterwards anyway like any girl, and you know you dont want to deal with that, and plus she might use it against you after.

 

just do it and say you didn't.
gawd.
its gonna suck when i turn 18
o shet 4 months left!

 

Im preatty sure that wasent serious. They were making a joke about pastors raping kids.

 

no not class.. he was obviously joking.. I was talking about mother's love, and didn't want to mention her name, but now you've gone and made me!!!!

 

Ahh, i see. Sorry bought that.

 

i say hit it dude, i mean if she is giving you all the signals i dont see what could be wrong....

 

yeah thanks ppls, i will just ignore it, and tell her shes to young ATM for me if she gets pushy

 

well its up to you but theres 2 ways of going on @ it:

eminem says if the bitch has a bush, hit that shit

i say no, i mean if she was like 15/16, it would be different, but 13/14 is a huge difference to 19, and in the end it will be just both of you who will get hurt.